In the past, I turned over the drawer and peeked at my diary.
Xu Yuqin Intern of Shandong commercial newspaper. The farther, the communication with parents is less and less. In the past, parents in order to understand the latest trends in their children, turn out the drawer, read the diary, but now have to start the "new new human", the post, space, blog, everyone, micro-blog is not down, parents and children play "dark war", children shouting "surveillance", parents but say just care.
have you been lurking?
yesterday, the mountains and woods were posted, and the netizens said, "smart breeze wishes," and shouted, "post bar has been infiltrated by parents!" It turned out that the net friend had hurt his hand in a ball game, and had not been seriously injured, he did not intend to tell the parents, afraid of the people in the family, talking to other friends in the post bar. I feel that my parents are pushing themselves too tightly and do not have their own private space, which resonates with many netizens. There are friends with them, saying that their space is often patronized by parents, their daily dynamics are in the hands of their parents, and they can only use the "horse armor" to speak, but still have no sense of security. "Feel the same. My dad is in 5 levels in the woods. "Netizens are" invincible ". Netizens "CorpseChen" said, "my dad added my QQ and then read all my space logs, and then I decided to delete friends."
network is "latent". Students react differently. Their QQ space and post bar are hidden by their parents. Some netizens think, "now my father and mother are too domineering" and "good to love"; some netizens are calling "being watched and cannot stand". Some netizens have suggested that such a thing should be made clear to parents, "jealousy is the greatest harm" and "easy to cause family conflicts". Netizens "can not have not forget" directly sent a message to the parents, claiming that "although love son is eager, but still want to have some freedom of their own space".
with the development of the Internet, young people like to record their lives on the Internet, interact with netizens frequently, but neglect their parents. Many parents can only infiltrate their children's lives in a "latent" way.
expert: it can be understood, but it is still a lot of positive communication between the associate professor of education at the Shandong Normal University and Dong Hui Dong, the doctor of psychology, that parents do this, and the purpose is to understand more information about the children, which can be understood in fact. After all, today's children are not very willing to talk with their parents. Parents want to know their children's lives and care for their children. This is inevitable. But how to deal with these information from the Internet is very important. Professor Dong Huiqin advised parents not to take these "intelligence" as a handle, but to properly handle the problems behind them, and to make them euphemistic. "We still need to advocate more communication with children, treat ourselves as children's friends, and let children talk and talk with parents willingly." She said.