children, but many parents do not want their children to lose. A contest caused by a child is likely to turn into a contest between adults. As the saying goes, "people are so expensive", so father The mother should learn to watch its change and be a mother with a way.
your own baby is in contradiction with a small partner. Parents should look at them first, let them handle it by themselves, when the conflict escalates until the baby can't solve his parents' help.
at this time, one side of the treatment is not enough to take, "the peacemaker" should take a neutral solution, let the two parties to the satisfaction of the baby, then, we will give an example. In
a fast restaurant, 3 - year - old winter and 28 - month - old Nini are scramble for a shopping cart. The cart was bought by Dongdong and her mother at the supermarket. When she was eating in the restaurant, she was taken to play by Nini. When Nini pushed the car beyond the tolerable winter and winter, winter and winter went back to the car. He did not speak, but stretched out his hand to pull the car; Nini did not seem to be able to express his will in words, so he grabbed the car and did not let go. Ni Ni's grandmother immediately scolded her. "How is it so bully? The little brother is going to take it back and let it go!" Ni Ni obviously didn't want to give up it. She turned a deaf ear to her grandmother's words. The two baby stood stiff, and a small cart moved between the two of them.
winter winter's mother asked Nini's grandmother to retire and leave room for themselves to solve the problem. The stalemate lasted about 5 minutes, and winter winter asked her mother: "Mom, I want to go home." Mama smiled and went forward and gave a suggestion to the two babies: let Nini send her little brother to the car. They pushed the car outside the restaurant door and said goodbye.
case analysis: happy ending
two babies agreed to work together to push the car outside the restaurant. A few steps out of the restaurant, Nini automatically loosened her hand, and said "goodbye" to her in a big winter, pushing her car home with her mother. Nini's grandmother nodded and praised: "this mother has a way." Winter and winter are very satisfied with her mother's work. I admit that I just wanted to grab by my own strength, and I couldn't solve the problem, so I trusted my mother more. Such an outcome can be said to be a great joy to both two babies, and not to add trouble to their parents.
say nothing
what every baby is interested in is not willing to give up, and the baby is persistent in defending his own things. If parents use coercive means to force him to give up, the baby simply does not understand the reason of "modesty" and will only feel wronged and cry.
mom and I want to go home to
it's very correct to send a little brother
winter mama, and she gives a neutral suggestion to let the baby push the car together and give a distance limit. This neutral proposal has been endorsed by the two sides of the conflict, giving the two babies a step down. So, the two babies who used to force the opposite direction make force in the same direction. Nini reached the purpose of pushing the car for a while, and winter winter returned to her car as soon as she wished.