"Take the old two and make the old man happy."
Shandong business daily / > for two children to start this year to increase
"I will be certain, before she brought", Gao Yuyi of sunshine elder sister Feeling that, recently, such customers have increased.
GAO Yuyi told the reporter that there were not many two children in the past, now many, including "double two children" and "two children alone", "single two children" have no special data statistics, but a rough feeling, this crowd booked the number of sister-in-law from last autumn and winter has increased from last year's autumn and winter, from three or four this year. There are more months. "
" is the parents with the old man to find the moon, "Gao yyi said, time passed too fast, some customers like (a few years) before, because there are two children come back.
this part of the parents' feeling is very mature, Gao Yu believes that these parents do not necessarily use high star - star - sister-in-law, because they have already had the experience of taking care of their children and only need someone to help them. "Parents often call for a Yuesao, because they used it before, and felt good, so they went straight to the next one," says Gao Yu Yi.
for Yuesao, this is a good thing. Moon sister Yin, she is back to the child with the first child with a second child, "come back, this is not uncommon, and then back to this home, see the previous children, very friendly."
new month's service: "take the old two to tell the old man a story"
a routine meeting of the sun sister from April 1st to 10, a theme agenda is "how to do a good job for a second child".
"at that time is a customer, home born in the old two, according to the normal ask the moon sister, is to the old two to please, come home, find the problem in the old man," the responsible person of the sun sister said to this reporter, this is the situation, the old man is the grandmother care, responsibility cooking, but do not good, but do not good, So we Yuesao took the initiative to undertake the responsibility of cooking. "After all, the young two, more sleep time, our sister-in-law to help take care of the old man, the result of the second full moon, thin and thin old, 2 jin," said the person in charge, they also realized that the "separate two children" from the end of May started from Shandong, and now some of the effects began to appear, for it The work has brought new demands. "We will give all the Yuesao" that when we take care of the second child, we must spare no effort to take care of the boss.
the person in charge said that some moon sister-in-law felt that I would serve second children according to the contract, not to serve the first child. "But our point of view is to make friends with the boss, let the boss feel your kindness, so that your work will be done well." Sometimes, the boss can even play a leading role at home. If he or she is not at home, it will be hard for you to do so. If you want to do a good job, you need to think about it thoroughly.
the person in charge uses a simile to say how Mingyue sister-in-law works well in the two child family.
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in an interview before, journalists have been in contact with the group: the child has been in grade three or four, and after two children, the child is in a strong mood and even a great decline in academic performance.
"don't wait until the boy is too sensible to regenerate two children." More than one parent told reporters during the interview. A family in the provincial capital added a new member in July: a baby girl whose son had been in grade 4 in primary school, and her mother found that when two children were alone together, she would soon be able to hear the cry of her daughter. At the end of last year, the answer was "unveiled". At home, the guest and mother went to the kitchen to prepare. The son came out of his own room, gave her daughter a slap in his face and soon returned to his room. The guest told the mother that she had been staring at it for a long time, unbelievable.
because the two child is too small, the mother always has to devote more energy to care. The grade of the three grade boy in the primary school of the provincial city is straight down. At the same time, they often fight with their classmates, and parents are invited to the campus once. "3 times a week at the most." The counselor told her that this is how the child gets more attention from her mother through this action.
Shi Zhaoping, the chief mechanic of Ji'nan sunshine elder sister, has brought a lot of children in a single and double family. She thinks that most of the older adults she has brought are accepted by the old two, but there are also some cases, which are closely related to the idea and education of the family.
when Zhao Ping said that she had met a family, she took the old man and then went to pick up the other children, and then the family had the second one again, so she came to the home again. "Maybe there was some idea about the child. She had a full-time job with her. He gave the child the idea that you were a boy and home." Everything is yours, and my sister is not happy. I've been in this house for almost 10 months, and this grandmother hardly ever had a second child.
, he tried to change the situation and criticized the old man several times. "Although I am an outsider, the family is very supportive of my practice - the love of parents giving two children should be fair."
Zhao Ping also said that the children are very sensitive now, and sometimes the relatives of the family come to see the children, and say, "with a sister, the family will not hurt you". "I think this kind of joke does not open, and it is necessary to cultivate the responsibility of the old two." How to deal with the relationship between two children is very important for parents' education.