Why can't children play? The reason for the child to be beaten
Qilu network May 30th news (reporter Liu Jun Guo Peng Dezhou Dong Guohui Liu Zhi Yantai Taiwan Wan Ruipeng Jining Taiwan Liu Changyu Rizhao platform Meng Tao, Feng Feng Dongying station) is the 61 festival in two days, and the children's parents hope and love. How to educate children when they grow up with their children? Have you ever started to beat a child?
primary school student Zhang Zhengyang said, "I have been losing my head. My father was in a hurry, and then he kicked me. (what did you think at that time?) There is a feeling of revenge, I want to kick my father's foot, then did not kick, dare not, (hate dad?) I don't hate it. My father is sure to do that.
Xu Keyi, a pupil, cried, "I didn't do well in the exam, and then I went home and my father beat me, and it was very hard to kick me, and I was very sad."
another pupil said that he had not been beaten. "If there is anything wrong with the exam, my parents will educate me with what they say and not hit me."
primary school student Tang Yiru said, "my parents will give me reason. If I don't speak well, I will punish me for copying the examination paper."
should a child be hit in the end? A parent said, "I don't think so. When I hit her, it was because I was in a bad mood. Maybe I was a little bit bad. After I finished, I regretted it."
Li Meishan, a Dezhou citizen, said, "I feel that the child's young mind is also a subject, and he has his own voice, so that parents should respect their children and shouldn't play."
a citizen in Yantai said, "I think we should fight when we fight. We should coax when we coax." (when should I play?) Sometimes, for example, when eating, there are some habits that are especially not used to, and must be changed. "
another Yantai citizen said, "I found out that it was a kind of suppressing child, and our parents should grow up, including controlling their emotions and growing up their children."
a Yantai citizen said, "we may be a filial son under the stick at that time. I think now that children have a lot of thought and they are independent, they make a mistake and say you can say me, but you don't beat me."
Zhang Yan, deputy director of the adolescent psychological ward of Shandong psychiatric hospital, said: "scolding has increased the probability of the problem. Now the problem children are here, many are excellent children, in high school and junior high school are the first few children, we all feel very regrettable, so good to learn, become this It's a state. It's a lot in the outpatient. "
Wang Shuying, the teacher of jiebei Road Primary School in Dezhou, says that children who are often beaten are timid and unconfident, and are not optimistic when they are in trouble.
Dezhou City Liberation North Road Primary School Teacher Liu Zhenzhen said: "I think the child is like a small tree, he is sure to grow out of some redundant branches in the process of growing up. As a parent, it is not a rude means to break down these branches, and psychological guidance, I think he is more tolerant to the children." Easy to accept, more easy to correct.