Tell the child: do not be kind in these four situations.
origin / future network of Chinese women
we teach children to be kind from childhood, but in complex today, how many children and even adults, Because of being hurt by kindness, should we teach children to be unkind from childhood? It also violates the principle of being a man.
please tell the children at least, in these four cases, to put away their goodness!
you are vulnerable to his strong
one day, there is a mother to school to pick up the child late, a human trafficker seize the opportunity, take the opportunity to coax her children.
cheater said, "Oh, boy, I lost my stuff in the toilet. Now can you help me look for it?" He wanted to lead the children into the toilet so that his partners could start. She asked three times, and the child shook his head. He was angry. "Have you learned nothing about helping your child?"
the child glared at him and ran to the teacher. The trafficker looked at the child alertness and immediately changed the target. In less than ten minutes, they lied to another child and were arrested by the police when they were about to drive away.
the child ran to the teacher and told the teacher that these people were bad guys. The teacher was dubious, but for safety sake, he called the police. It turned out that they were really bad guys.
the teacher asked the child, "how do you know they are bad?" The child said, "mother said, if an adult asks for your help, don't take care of him, because if an adult meets the difficulty that can't be solved, he will seek adult help, not a younger child than he is."
adult men usually don't ask for help from pregnant women. Strong adults generally don't let old people help. Adults generally don't look for help. It must be because you are better than him, so he can find your help.
if you are weak, and the strong side wants you to help, then he must have other plans. At this time, please keep your kindness.