it was raining. A pregnant woman saw a beggar in the doorway in the rain and could not bear it. So he asked him to come in and rest his feet. When the beggar went into her house with gratitude, he found that only the pregnant woman was at home, and threatened the pregnant woman to give him a living expenses.
in such a closed environment, only two of them were in, she lost the room for bargaining, and in order to avoid greater harm, it broke down and paid ten thousand dollars to beggars. When an occasion turns from openness to closure, without supervision from everyone, it is hard to imagine what people will do.
may be a modest gentleman before people, but when you come to a person, obviously you are weak and he is strong in the enclosed environment, you can only be manipulated. Therefore, helping others can be fun, but try to avoid being in closed space.
goodness sometimes can be bad.
has a well-known story.
tourists arrived in the mysterious Hoh Xil in the escort of the sanctuary protection organization. A cute little Tibetan antelope ran around and explored his mind with curiosity. Seeing the cute little animals, the tourists suddenly started to stir up. They came forward to take pictures, took out food and water, and fed the lovely little animal.
suddenly, a roar sounded: "go away!" The captain of the sanctuary protection team rushed up and ran away the lovely little Tibetan antelope. The tourist was angry: "what are you doing?" How can you treat small animals so brutally? What's wrong with us protecting these little animals? "
"you are doing evil!" The captain of the protection rebuked, "if you treat wild animals too friendly, they think that all human beings are kind, and if they encounter poachers, they may be killed."
so, the tourists are stunned. Your kindness must be able to withstand the complexity of people's hearts. It seems to be a good thing, but it may become a bad thing because of the complex greed of people.
people are good to be bullied
before, there are two families as neighbors, and the usual relationship is good.
one of the families is much richer because they are competent. This year, God was angry, and the disaster was reduced. Tanaka failed. The poor family had no harvest, so they had to lie down and wait for death.
this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, thinking that everyone was neighbors, and sent the poor family a bucket of rice, which saved the rush. The poor family was very grateful to the rich and thought it was a real benefactor. After the hardest time, the poor go to thank the rich.
speaking, the seeds of the next year are still unsettled. The rich family said generously, "well, I have a lot of food here, and you'll take one more liter."
the poor man went home with a liter of grain. After returning home, his brother said, "what can this liter rice do? In addition to eating, it is not enough for the seeds we have in the land next year. The rich man is too much. Since it is so rich, we should give us some more food and money to give this, it is really bad. "
the words came to the ears of the rich. He was very angry and thought, "I give you so much food in vain, you not only thank me, but also hate me as an enemy, it's not a man." So, the two people who had a good relationship. From then on, it became an enemy.
when a person is hungry and cold, you give him a bowl of rice, that is to solve his big problems, he will be grateful. But if you continue to give him rice, he will take it for granted. A bowl of rice is not enough, two bowls of rice are not enough, three bowls or four bowls still feel that you have only given a drop in the ocean.
there is often such a thing in life. The first time he offers help to a person, he will be grateful to you, and the second time his gratitude will fade. After many times, he simply thinks it's all you should do for him, and even when it doesn't help, he will resentment of the benefactor. .
, therefore, the goodness of human beings must be measured. When a person does not want to get ahead and ask for help, please pick up your kindness in time.