Back to Ji'nan
summer vacation, from Kunming to sauna day in Ji'nan.
before we came back, the average age of the family was almost seventy years old, and grandpa, 85, was 67 years old, and sixty nanny. There are four permanent residents, two of whom are basically unable to take care of themselves. Families with two wheelchairs should not be very common.
it should be said that the son is the most miserable, facing a house of old people and patients, where has the colorful summer vacation life.
people are old, so poor. Eating and drinking lazara has become a big problem. When eating, they are often choked, and the fruit should be chopped to pieces. All the dishes are soft and rotten as the cooking standard. At any time and anywhere, there will be expectoration. Grandpa has basically no strength to vomit. He needs to stick his fingers on his finger and stick it out in his mouth. Every day, Grandpa and dad will wet their pants and sometimes they will not wait for a long time. The washing machine is used every day.
it seems that when people are old, they lose the dignity of many lives. No hope is seen.
every time I return to Ji'nan, I have a lot of concerns. Because it is the grandparents, not their own maiden family. I would worry about the baby sitter's request to go home and visit her relatives because they had to cook more and more dishes. In fact, the family really needed people, so every time I came back, I would carry my mother to a baby sitter with a red bag. I was also worried that the aunts felt that we had more to eat, so we brought back a lot of things to grandpa every time, and prepared some special products. In fact, the most ashamed is the son, I should take him out to play well on holiday, relax, see the world, but I take him to Ji'nan every time, this is the home of the elderly and the patients.
life is very regular. Mom doesn't ask us to get up early. My son and I usually get up at 8, eat breakfast, push Dad out at 8:30, go home at ten, eat fruit, wash clothes and sheets in the washing machine, sometimes go out to buy snacks, fruit, and look at several newspapers in the house. 11:30 to eat lunch, 12 point nap, I help my mother to pick up the things in the family, 12:30, 12:30, push dad nap, do not go out to buy things, then free activity to 2, Grandpa get up, the masseur generally arrived, give Grandpa, dad and mother massage body to do pedicure, I help take a thing, peipping fruit. At the same time, Bei Bei writes the homework. Then take a rest and eat dinner at 5:30. At 6 o'clock after supper, my son pushed his father out again. He usually went home at 7:30, bathed and ate fruit. After 8 o'clock, he was free to go online, read books. My son asked me strangely, "Mom, why do we do the same thing every day at Tai's house?" Because we want to take the old man as the center.
there are so many things at home that we can't expect babysitters. Sometimes when my father came home just in the morning, Grandpa would go out to see it. I would push him out with my babysitter, and my mother would cook at home. Sometimes babysitters and moms take up, and I cook. I come back, it's a substitute labor. My father was very feudal. He only wanted to see his mother when he took the shit and then cleaned his body. I can take over at least the things I buy, so that my mother can relax a little.
perhaps people who have lived in a small family for a few years have my idea that their home is the most comfortable. But every time I have a holiday, the first thing I want to do is to go back to my parents, so I turn my savings into air tickets, and I will go back to this aging family. Sometimes I also want to take my child to play a holiday in my own home. I can think about it for a long time or come back to make a substitute. They are all old, if I do not come back, take the ticket money to travel near, at the same time, at the same time, at the same time, I would be sad to have time to go home without coming back. Besides, I really miss the most intimate people of these old diseases.