How to solve the problem of the nearly million rights of the elderly in Ji'nan
source: a survey from the relevant departments of the urban women's newspaper
shows that nearly 80% of the elderly in Ji'nan have difficulties in their lives, and more than 1/3 of the elderly have felt lonely. How are the living conditions of the elderly in Ji'nan? How do children find their psychological changes? What are the problems that should be paid attention to when the babysitter is invited?
Mr. Yang, 77 years old, lives near Beiyuan street. He wants to find a wife to live with. But his son was worried that the property would be separated by foreigners, and he would stay in his father's house. Mr. Yang found a lawyer and wanted to fight a lawsuit, but he could not help thinking about the future pension problem. Yesterday, the reporter learned that, as a result of the natural weakness of the economy and physical strength, many elderly people in the face of support, inheritance and other issues, have to stand out, silently bear.
son bully house prevents father from remarried.
Mr. Yang's wife died many years ago, and he has lived alone in recent years. As he grows older, he hopes to spend the rest of his life together with his wife, who can take care of each other.
since he told the idea to his youngest son, he immediately rented out his house and moved into his home. On the surface, the son was afraid of his father being sneered at. In fact, he did not want to let outsiders divide his father's property. "The house is my own, can't I still be the owner?" Mr. Yang said, the house belonged to him, and he reminded his son many times to return to his home, but his son did not agree. The father and son had quarreled many times, but the son was reluctant to go.
under the helplessness of the elderly, Mr. Yang, through the aging department, came to the rights workstation of the migrant workers in Shandong Province, which often maintained rights for the elderly, and found a full-time lawyer, Zhang Jingtao.
think of future retirement giving up rights protection
from a legal point of view, the situation reflected by Mr. Yang is easy to handle. The house is his own. He has the right to decide the ownership of the right to use. But Zhang Jingtao, who has been engaged in the work of protecting the rights of the elderly for many years, does not encourage Mr. Yang to go to court with his son.
Zhang Jingtao said Mr. Yang's situation is very special. He has three children. The older daughter has been divorced for many years, and his life is not good. He has not been in contact with his family for many years. The elder son was paralyzed in bed and was unable to take care of his father. If Mr. Yang is in poor health, he can only be looked after by his youngest son. "If they are in conflict, the biggest influence must be Mr. Yang. Although the law stipulates that children have to fulfil their alimony obligations, who can supervise him every day? "Zhang Jingtao said, based on previous experience, he suggested that Mr. Yang and his son be reconciled by the streets and the neighborhood committees.
hearing the lawyer's suggestion, Mr. Yang was also worried about the future pension problem and had to give up the idea of prosecution temporarily.
most of the elderly are infringed mainly by mediation,
yesterday, the reporter learned from the Ji'nan Aging Committee that, at present, the elderly over 60 years old in Ji'nan are close to millions, and the number of people is increasing year by year.
Mr., a staff member of the Ji'nan Municipal Committee on aging, said that about 1/4 of the telephone calls they received every year were the elderly reflecting the tort. Among them, the proportion of supporting and inheriting problems is relatively large.
Mr. Yuan, director of the geriatric office in Lixia District, said that at present, there are more than 70 thousand elderly people in Lixia District, and the number of infringement complaints by the elderly is decreasing year by year. Relatively speaking, the elderly have disadvantages in economy and physical strength. In order to consider their future life, the "old age" event is mainly mediated. Even if the elderly prosecute, the court is mostly settled by mediation.
endowment is not the main reason because
"reconciliation is also bad, that is, there may be a vicious circle." Zhang Jingtao said that for children who infringe on the rights and interests of the elderly, reconciliation can solve the problem temporarily, but not due punishment will allow them to be more unscrupulous and less respectful of the elderly. The old man always makes a lot of pain when he tries to compromise.