Re: Chongqing version "peach sister": 91 year old nanny with 91 year old employer for 27 years
Li Shaoguang said, he was 55 years old because of his right foot atrophy, in advance from the Chongqing Shapingba sub food and aquatic products company clerk post in advance, then a monthly pension of 40 yuan, when idle, and the neighbour playing chess as entertainment, life is comfortable and tranquil. In 1991, after he received Wang Shunxian from his home and lived together, his retirement had changed. Every day, he took care of her food, food, cooking, and laundry...
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for two people. "At that time my retirement salary was not high. If I had to bear two people's life and Wang Shunxian's charge, it seemed to be elbows every month." Li Shaoguang recalled that Wang Shunxian had no other sources of income.
1993, Li Shaoguang in order to have enough money to afford Wang Shunxian's medical fees and two people's daily expenses, he had the idea of working to earn money, but the idea was strongly opposed by his daughter Li Jinglin: "father is 69 years old, and he has been suffering from a leg disease, and it is hard to work." But her daughter is Li Shaoguang, in his repeated requirements, the daughter to help him to get a copy of the warehouse, work 12 hours a day, the salary of 100 yuan a month. At that time, Li Shaoguang did not work for the bus, so he took care of Wang Shunxian at 5 p.m. every day after dinner, then took the bus first, and then walked for 1 hours to work. It was not until 1999 that Li Shaoguang, who was more than two years old, stopped working and applied for minimum living allowances to protect their lives.
Li Shaoguang said, "the burden of life is far more than economic constraints. With the increase of the illness, Wang Shunxian's leg muscles begin to shrink seriously, and the thigh is not as thick as the arms of the adult. It is not easy to take care of her."
two or three years ago, every time Wang Shunxian wanted to get out of bed, Li Shaoguang needed to put two square stools to the bedside, and then hold her out of bed, Wang Shunxian sat on a square stool, stabilized with his hands and grabbed another square stool, moved the whole body through the arm force, and then grabbed another square stool... Wang Shunxian's "walk", can only rely on this one before moving, the main bedroom to the living room distance less than 5 meters, she needs nearly 1 minutes, from the beginning to the end, Li Shaoguang should be beside her care, protection, the mouth still not stop to be careful.
at the same time, lying in bed makes Wang Shunxian's temper worse and worse, becoming suspicious, sensitive and often restless. At this time, Li Shaoguang always consoled himself: "Wang's mother-in-law's legs and feet are inconvenient, they have not gone downstairs for decades, only in the small room, the bad temper is unavoidable, we do not count with her."
"my wife was suffering from illness, and I felt empathy for Wang Shunxian's situation." Li Shaoguang said that since the first decision to take care of Wang Shunxian, so long as he still can move, even if life is difficult, even if he faltering, will still adhere to the commitment, not to give up the care of Wang Shunxian. The reason why we insist on not pushing Wang Shunxian to the community is that the better these days, the better the policies, and no more trouble for the government.