Pick up the dementia "Uncle" and take care of 28 years
28 years of 28 years, Peng Jingui, the woman of Ding Zhuang group in Shaw village, Ma Gu Tian Town, Biyang County If you look at a stranger who is unrelated and picked up on a daily basis, you will be heard there.
in Peng Jingui's home, I saw her and Zhu Benquan, the old man with dementia who had been looking after him for 28 years. Many farmers in Xiao Ling village have already built two or three storey buildings, but there are only a few brick houses in Peng Jingui's house. Although their homes are primitive, they are kept clean and tidy. When we arrived, Peng Jingui was beating Zhu Benquan up and making him happy.
"to meet my uncle is a kind of fate. Since I am lucky, I can not bear to see him suffer any more." Peng Jingui, 57, told us that one day in March 1988, Peng Jingui and her husband built a house for others at Chen Zhuang village, Ma Valley town, and saw a ragged old man working on the site.
this old man is Zhu Benquan, who was 65 years old. He wandered to Ma Gu Tian town two years ago. Many people on the site asked about the old man, but he never communicated with people until Peng Jingui asked him patiently that he said he was alone and wandered around.
"uncle, you go to my house." In the face of helpless Zhu Benquan, the good hearted Peng Jingui was born with compassion. On the same day, after doing her husband's ideological work, Peng Jingui and his husband led their "Uncle" home. As a matter of fact, Peng Jingui's family is not rich. There are father-in-law, mother-in-law, young children, and father with emphysema and coronary heart disease.
Peng Jingui saw that Zhu Benquan did not like to communicate with others. In order to get rid of the old man, she bought a pocket radio for him on weekdays. Peng Jingui took care of Zhu Benjin for 28 years as he took care of his own old man. In summer, she hangs mosquito nets for the elderly; in winter, she gives charcoal to the old man's house. With a little money, she would accompany the old people to visit the temple fairs, go to the theatre, and buy fruit for the old people.
1999 July, Zhu Benquan had appendicitis. Peng Jingui and her husband borrowed money to send the old man to the hospital for surgery. Last spring, the old man caught a cold and enteritis. Peng Jingui asked him to take medicine and drink it. In order to take care of Zhu Benquan, Peng Jingui didn't care for her father in bed. In order to do some filial piety, Peng Jingui sometimes took care of his father from his home.
2000 June, in the harvest season, Zhu Benquan was laid up because of illness. While Peng Jingui was treating Zhu Benquan, he took care of his sick father. The father saw his daughter busy, and said to Peng Jingui, "send me back, take good care of your uncle." With his father's repeated urges, Peng Jingui sent his father home. No, my father was a man of the world that night.
once again recalled the scene of the year, Peng Jingui wept. "My father and Uncle Ben are all my relatives. I feel sorry for not being able to finally filial piety for my father." Peng Jingui said that she secretly decided to put all her filial piety on her uncle so that he could enjoy his old age.
Zhu Benquan mentally retarded dementia, sometimes insane, said run away, Peng Jingui and his family often look for several villages around him to find him. Seeing the author's visit, the villagers Zhao Xiangxian enthusiastically introduced: "Zhu Benquan is 93 years old, and the whole village knows Zhu Benquan is Jin Guijian coming back." Zhu Benquan was lucky in his life. If he hadn't waited for him, he would have died. "
Zhao Xiangxian, speaking of Peng Jingui, he can not help putting up his thumbs. She thinks Peng Jingui's life is not easy to take care of his parents, the male mother-in-law and Zhu Ben all 5 old people, but the valuable filial piety that she shows is worth all the villagers to learn.
Peng Jingui's husband lost his ability to work many years ago. He was ill in bed. Peng Jingui took on the heavy burden of life alone. Peng Jingui, 57 years old, is not as healthy as a day. He has developed lumbar disc herniation and stomach diseases. But the stubborn she said, as long as she can move a day, she will take care of her husband and uncle Zhu Benquan. Even if she is poor, she will not treat his uncle.
Peng Jingui's uncle, who has persisted in supporting the unrelated relationship for 28 years, has been widely spread in the local area. His kindness and filial piety are praised by many people in Biyang County, and she has also won the title of "the ten best filial star in the sky" in Zhumadian.