great, but I do it from my heart. I don't have any money, but I have to give it up! " - Yu Mulian
2007, Yu Mulian announced retirement. The pension for TVB for thirty years is only HK $two hundred and eighty thousand. After receiving the pension, Yu Mulian donated eighty thousand yuan and set up a "Yu Mulian hope primary school" in the barren mountain area of Guizhou.
17 only graduated from primary school, and little reading was the greatest regret in his life, but she turned this regret into a hope of a class of children and completed the 300 people's dream of reading. For the 67 year old man, this is a selfless dedication.
she was very low-key and never volunteered to mention donations to the media. In 2008, TVB knew about this and chose her to be a guest of the world. "Going to the world" is TVB's annual high quality program. That year, eight people were selected, Xie Xian, Kathy Chow, Alex Fong, Angie Chiu, Daniel Chan, Zheng Danrui, and Yu Mulian, and the ratings were also one of the series. Many people began to know her again.
program team before the Guizhou field visit Yu Mulian hope primary school, from Hongkong to take the two hour plane to Guiyang to take a car to Bijie, and then four hours to the car to the mountain, an old Yu Mulian was rugged mountain road to get the pain of waist.
when she arrived at the village entrance, Yu Mulian felt that she had forgotten everything. "I didn't expect the student union to welcome me at the entrance of the village. I feel so bad. It's been raining just now. They are standing at the door and so on. It's really moving. "
saw her on TV pointing to the school house and said, "this is my school!" The good work she did led to Ceng Junhua, director of the administrative division of the Hongkong Special Administrative Region, to send her a letter of recognition.
someone asked her how to spend two hundred thousand years in Hongkong. She said lightly, "I don't love money very much. Besides, I have other jobs. I'm frugal. A bread, a bowl or meal can be a meal. "
life has never been in love, no child, no family,
"I am a woman who is afraid of being hurt, and can not afford to lose!" Yu Mulian
She once exploded that her father was Xiguan little, and then her family fell down. Her mother wanted to be a famous woman, unwilling to eat poverty, and abandoned her father to run to Hongkong. The father remarried, and the stepmother gave birth to a younger brother and sister. She also sent supplies to them all the time.
mousse was a nightmare for her childhood in "to the world". She had a good bet on her mother. She used to play her as a bag and often hit her. Although she had a maid at home, she had to wash clothes, cook, clean, save her make-up and torture her mother.
these indirectly affected Yu Mulian's 60 years' experience and never experienced love. Her reason is: "I am a woman who is afraid of being hurt, and can not afford to lose."
when she was young, she also had a pursuer, but she had been afraid to "take over" because of the family pain of her parents in childhood.
watching many people get married and get divorced, Yu Mulian is more suffering from "male phobia": "my family shadow lingers." When I like people, people may not like me. When people like me, I may not like others. I am afraid they will cheat my pension. Besides, I am accustomed to being alone, and marry an old man? There's no feeling. "
the only scandal was in 1995, and she was told that she had been in love with Cao Dahua, the screen detective. Yu Mulian firmly denied that she thought Cao Dahua was a senior uncle, and this hearsay was too hurtful.
if there is no love, will there be regret in the family?
she smiled and said, "fortunately, many friends care about me, and can live without love."
family seemed never to belong to her, and her sister and stepmother also made her disheartened. She took care of her family for so many years, and her younger sister and sister always used her father as an excuse to do so.
when her sister Yu Zhili passed away, she said, "I've been dead other days. Please burn me into the Victoria Harbour and let me swim all over the world. It won't be a graves for me anyway."
Mingming has encountered many people in the world of "disheartened", but did not give up their own discontent, still can transform the love of doing good, through the good to help more children, let more people get happiness.
although she was just a licorice actor who could play the ugly woman, she did the extraordinary thing; although he didn't have a trophy to prove his career, he had won the golden image of life more important than acting.
this year, she is 75 years old, she is very good, bless her!