22 year old surrogate mother "rents" the uterus to earn 150 thousand
what kind of women are willing to conceive in October and sell their children after childbirth? What kind of companies are legally "selling children" to gain more profits than the drug trade?
this seemingly absurd thing is happening around us. In the past 30 years, the development of test tube baby and artificial insemination, as well as the infertility rate of up to 15% to 20%, is bringing up the development of a "baby market". Surrogacy has lurked behind us from public curiosity and unfamiliar gaze for many years.
it has recently been reported that the Ministry of health has solicited advice on surrogate to experts, and experts are expected to be legal for 5 to 10 years, but the Ministry of health has denied it and reaffirms that any form of surrogate technology will still be banned.
this is a complex market. A series of problems, such as money, trade, ethics, ethics, law, medicine, etc., test the emotion and reason of the buyers and sellers naked. Because of the lack of law, the legalization of surrogacy still has a long way to go.
mother, this is the noblest
word, but if the front is "surrogate", it becomes a trade full of money and taboo, which is the first reaction of our ordinary people to "surrogate mother". The birth of October, although not his own flesh and flesh, is his own life; the birth is the separation, the rest is only the helplessness and heart acid; this is our "surrogate mother" of the sad explanation. So, in the "surrogate mother", the identity that was originally seen in the novel was copied to himself. What kind of original intention did they have, what kind of emotional changes have they experienced?
a number of days, the reporter contacted a "surrogate mother
mother", listening to her surrogate story.
1.
Yunnan sister for the family is forced to surrogate
Color Phoenix (the pseudonym) is only 23 years old this year, in the "mother" group of age relatively small, but before she had a surrogate experience. In fact, Cai Feng is not only a "surrogate mother", but also a surrogate referral. "We are all poor people. It's not easy to find a job. I don't accept intermediary fees, I just want to help them."
Color Phoenix is now in Shanghai. Her hometown is a small mountain village in a remote rural area of Yunnan, where there are 3 siblings and sick fathers. 3 brothers and sisters were studying, and the family was burdens heavily. As a long elder sister, Cai Feng was forced to earn money. Just when a fellow worker worked in Shanghai, she introduced her to surrogacy agency. "When I came out with my fellow townsman, there were two sisters. Once a surrogacy company is going to have a check-up, they are found to have hepatitis B, and they have not made it.
CAI Feng told reporters that shortly after the agency was named, she was introduced to a client. In early 2012, the intermediary arranged her to meet a couple in Shanghai as a civil servant. The woman was 34 years old, had been pregnant many times, had been habitually aborted and could not have children. They wanted to be a test tube baby. "I had been meeting them for more than half an hour. I was not high enough, but I had a height of 1.73 meters, and they looked satisfied." "."
2.
pregnancy custody during the strict control of living habits
"just entered the company, I have already talked about, I may get 150 thousand yuan fee, staging." Shortly after meeting with the couple, Cai Feng was assigned to the hospital for physical examination. In less than half a month, he was transplanted to the hospital. More than ten days later, she was pregnant. "Do you know if you are pregnant, do you feel differently about your mother?" asked the reporter. "To tell you the truth, it doesn't feel like it. It's quite fresh." After pregnancy, the surrogate company managed to host her life, arranged her into an apartment, found a babysitter to take care of her, and asked for a daily sleep, no internet access, only one hour of television a day, and the first 3 months to go out. "In the first 3 months of pregnancy, I live in a house with other generation of mothers. After 3 months, I live in a house. It's a bit boring to live there and wait for someone to get paid. After
test tube baby, in order to improve the level of progesterone, the "acting mother" should take a few months of progesterone. In the 3 months after the pregnancy, Cai Feng has to continue injections, two needles a day, and spend all his life on the buttocks. "Give me 2000 yuan a month's salary, about 3000 yuan, and clothing fees. The compensation was given to me in stages, until the production gave me a total of 150 thousand yuan. As the belly grows bigger and bigger, Cai Feng begins to notice the little life in the stomach, especially when there is fetal movement.
3.
"mother" "mother" after the divorce of children with the only child
October pregnant, better in the better, the intermediary arranged for her to do several pregnancy tests, the child in the development is very good. In fact, the closer to the production stage, the less willing it is. That's my first pregnancy. My child has been in my stomach for so long. I really want to see what the baby is like. Cai Feng said that the child was born prematurely, but it should be healthy. The reason for saying "should be" is that the child is taken away from life, and Cai Feng does not even have a chance to look at it.
that day was October 16, 2012. This day, Cai Feng still remember very clearly. After all, it was her first pregnancy. Cai Feng said, although there was a little affection for the children at that time, but because they had never seen each other for a long time, they did not feel much longer, and more curious.
Color Phoenix told the reporter, do not see her say so easy, but to do "mother" is a risk, but also a lot of helplessness, "like I have not married the child of the 'mother' is not much, most of them are divorced with their children alone mother, older age. They have no other skills, they need to have children when they are in financial difficulties, and they choose the way to support their families when they earn more money from surrogacy.
"all for home." Cai Feng said that most of her surrogate mothers were divorced and their children were small. And the generation of surrogate should stay for a year, the middle can not go home, some of them leave the children to the home for the elderly to help, cheat to say that they come out to work, some directly bring the children.
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a lot of "mother" only do one time, make enough
talk about the risk. She said she heard other "mother" said, some of the middle miscarriage, the intermediary compensation for thousands of dollars, and some in pregnancy, there are diabetes, hypertension. In fact, a lot of "generation of mothers" once did not do it. After all, surrogacy is not a glorious thing for most people. " Cai Feng said he did not plan to do it again. He had sent the earned money back to his hometown. "Are you looking for a boyfriend now? Are you afraid that surrogacy will have an impact on the future marriage?" the reporter asked her. Cai Feng said that he had not found it yet. Fortunately, the child was born at the time, leaving no scar on his stomach. "I won't tell my boyfriend about this experience." Said the Phoenix.
experts say
China's surrogate legitimation is early
is it really like a surrogate agency said, zero risk and zero hidden danger? As an expert who had been involved in the legalization of surrogate, Tang Rong, the chief physician of the Mt. A series of concerns of surrogate, through argument, we agree that the ethics and the hidden dangers existing in the surrogate are still difficult to solve, and the legalization of the surrogate should be cautious and careful.
Tang Rong said that the rate of infertility in China is rising year by year. Now Shandong has reached 12% to 15%. In 1 years, there are about 10000000 couples in the country, and about 1000000 of them are infertile. In infertility patients, the female factor is about 30%. Women's reproductive age is generally one of the main causes of infertility. In terms of eugenics, the best childbearing age for women is
23 to 28 years old. After 30 years of age, the number of high quality eggs is shrinking. After 35 years of age, the ovarian function began to decline, egg aging, endometriosis, pelvic inflammation and other diseases increased, these are the common causes of infertility.
in addition, continuous multiple abortions are also important causes of infertility.
"if a woman's uterus has problems, such as a congenital absence of a uterus or a disease excised from the uterus, or a bad uterine environment, multiple pregnancies are still not pregnant or habitual abortion, and can be used to achieve the purpose of having children by surrogate. In fact, less than 1% of infertility patients need this special technology. " Tang Rong said that surrogate in the United Kingdom, part of the United States, India, Malaysia and other countries for the legal act, the premise is only for the womb and other women with physical problems. In France, Germany, Switzerland and Singapore, surrogacy is prohibited.
Tang Rong said that surrogate does solve the suffering of some families without children, but "the happiness of these families is not based on the pain of other
people". "
" the Ministry of health has convened a special demonstration meeting on surrogate, including experts from various aspects of ethics, medicine, society and law. It is agreed that the legalization of surrogate is still a long way to go, and it is still too early. "
for example, the surrogate mother's personal dignity may be seriously injured during surrogacy. Secondly, a series of maternal complications still exist during pregnancy and childbirth. Pregnancy induced hypertension, gestational diabetes, prepartum and postpartum hemorrhage, placental adhesion and placental implantation may occur during pregnancy, especially in multiple pregnancy. If abortion is aborted, it may also have an impact on later childbearing. "If the above problems arise, the contract signed at the time of surrogacy has no legal effect, and surrogate mothers are often faced with no rights." Tang Rong said.
in addition, there may also be surrogate children born, it is a defective child, no one wants to see it. Who is the birth mother of a surrogate child or not to tell the child that he / she is a surrogate, a "two mother" and other issues that need laws and regulations to regulate it. "Now this industry is unable to rely on. In the countries where surrogacy is legal, strict laws and regulations are established to protect the rights and interests of surrogate women, clients and future generations. In Britain, for example, the law stipulates that the surrogate mother is the raw mother of the test tube baby, and the principal of the sperm and egg is provided, and the relevant transfer procedures are required in accordance with the adoption law. "