Blind female heart doctor: 16 years of free psychological assistance for 2000 people.
central wide network Chengdu reporter Chen Ruihai
sitting in front of the person, Li Fangzhou can not see. She can only use ears to capture stories hidden in her voice. These sentiments are almost two extremes, either low or manic.
after listening to a cry, Li Fangzhou's ear, the world is quietly open - every person who comes to her is at the darkest hour of her life. They are deep in the valley of the mind, and they are hard to break away. As a counselor Li Fangzhou, the next thing to do is to give these people a lamp to help them find a bright outlet in the dark.
pull the other person out of a low mood.
that dream has been wrapped around him, and he can never get rid of it.
"the floating people in dreams are grotesque and headless. They opened their mouths and looked at them like a dead fish. The more than 20 year old boy was scared out of a cold sweat at night.
Li Fangzhou conjecture that the young man who came to the consultancy might have seen too many hideous deceased, and that time Wenchuan had just struck a earthquake, so he might have been a soldier in the earthquake relief.
Li Fangzhou's judgment is accurate. Young soldiers dug the remains of the victims for a long time after the earthquake relief, felt that they did not save the people, and felt guilty, and came back as if they were personal. Usually he pretends to be ill, and does not speak to colleagues. He did not return the letter from his girlfriend, lying alone in bed all day.
young people are very miserable. They always feel like they are dying. They even want to commit suicide. Li Fangzhou brought a piece of paper and a pen to let him calculate an account and write down the benefits of suicide. He could not write it out. But when Li Fangzhou mentioned his parents, he was worried.
"these people's deaths are not caused by you, but natural disasters, so you should not feel guilty. Instead, a sense of achievement should be replaced. If you dig them out, they will be able to live in peace, and their loved ones will be grateful to you. Calculating the cost of suicide, finding out the crux of the counselor, and constantly giving "positive hints" are the common methods of Li Fang Zhou. At that time, the young man called her only if she had nightmares in the middle of the night. After two months of conversation, he returned to normal.
sometimes the other person's emotions are difficult to control, and positive psychological hints can't work, so they need to divert his attention. It's like the man who calls when he drives half way. On the phone, he cried to Li Fangzhou that he had a good relationship with his brother-in-law, but after the earthquake, two people were separated from Yin and Yang. He could not bear to drive. He cried when he thought of him. He nearly had an accident seven times.
Li Fangzhou advised him to stop driving for the time being, climb mountains when he was free, and do gardening when he was tired. She wanted to pull the other person out of her low spirits, which is also the core work of her psychological counselling.