Re: how did they become old single boys?
Vincent believes that it is necessary to know friends of contacts. When you are near, you can see what kind of people their friends are, and you can also understand the other side of her.
several times, Vincent stopped dating because the girl's family friends were too wonderful.
a girl's friend has been dressing up all over the face, the European style double, the pointed chin, filled with hyaluronic acid. Vincent is worried that the girl will move two knives with her friends one day, so she will not continue to associate with each other.
there is a girl who is very compatible with Vincent, but she has a sister who has a very strange temper. Shanghai dialect is called "do".
there was a time to play in the suburbs. When my sister was in the restaurant, the dishes she ordered were not delicious, and they didn't eat a single bite. On the way to play, and constantly put forward to find food, no one can play, all day long to help her find food. Once again, my sister came back from Korea, and my sister called Vincent to pick up the airport. Vincent thought it was too strange. "Sister has a husband. Why not let her husband pick up?" It's his principle not to be alone with women around his girlfriend. After two months of knowing
with her elder sister, Vincent learned their hometown's custom of wedding betrothal gifts. My sister married 300 thousand at that time, and the elder sister must not be less than 4 or 500 thousand. He could not accept it. "How can it be like selling a daughter?" Sister said that the amount of gift can be talked about. He didn't even want to talk about it, and he didn't know it. Most of the contacts between
Vincent and girls ended after one or two months of contact. He blamed the disharmony of character. "When you are young, you want to move your partner, but not now." Vincent just wants to find someone who attracts each other instinctively and does not bother to pursue it.
"some girls are slow in falling in love, and are cautious in holding hands. They will maintain certain yardsticks." Vincent says he is fast hot. If a girl is too slow and not interested in him, he will give up immediately. A girl who only goes out for a date once a week will soon lose patience. "Sometimes I go on business. She works overtime on weekdays or on weekdays, and it gets cold two or three weeks later." Always keeping the distance between him and himself, he felt that this was not a social interaction.
his rhythm of interaction is two or three times a week. If he talks well in a month, he will take a girl's outskirts on weekends. Vincent thinks that a person's character can be seen in travel. In the spring of
2016, he went for a walk with a girl who had known for more than a month. At 10 in the morning, Vincent drove down to the apartment building, and no parking on the roadside yellow line. Then he called to let her down, and she didn't show up. Vincent circled around and called again. The girl said she just got up and went to bathe and change her clothes. Plus he put on makeup before going out, and he waited for over an hour.
got to the car, Vincent asked, "why is it so late?" The girl said, well, it's not too late. On the high speed, Vincent's cell phone rang, and he looked at it. The girl asked, "why don't you answer the phone?" "She suspected that the other girls were calling and I didn't want to pick them up." Vincent explained to her that she was very good at obeying traffic rules, driving without calling, waiting to stop and go back.
two people went to drink in the evening, and the girl talked about things that did not answer the phone on the bus. She made a request that she could not hide from her after sending messages, that is, she had the right to check the meaning of the phone. Vincent thought, "I'll show you what I want. It doesn't mean you can see it all the time." At this time he had a pimple in his heart. "But it's not realistic to spend the night together."
after that trip, he did not immediately reject her. After continuing his contacts for a while, he found that the girl's control was too strong, and eventually two people were yellow.
at the beginning of communication, Vincent will talk to each other about their past experiences, work and future expectations. "More about life trivia, what happened today, a news I saw, what happened to friends around me." Vincent said, "through these things in life to understand her three views. You can't ask directly what kind of three views are. It's easy to fall in love with
it's hard to enter a close relationship for a long time. After being confused, it is only a solace of loneliness.
want to be "sexual interest" congenial
"with eye margin and chatting, it depends on whether the bed can be taken together."
Vincent met a sweet, well-dressed girl, but she was very ticklish. "The chest can't be touched." They had been in contact for about three or four weeks, and when they kissed, their bodies were naturally touched. Her reaction was very sensitive. She said she could go to bed with a man, but she could not touch her sensitive spot. She would laugh. Vincent felt a little exaggerated and didn't dare to go on.
he also met a rare girl with a very good personality, considering Vincent everywhere. She is an ideal wife and mother. She's a piano teacher. When she's on a date, she'll drive Vincent to work and make a weekend date. If she happens to be away from school, Vincent is not allowed to drive. Life is simple. "It's enough to eat one hundred or two hundred yuan with her, unlike some girls who ask for a style and a five hundred or six hundred for a meal."
met for a week. Two people went to bed when they met for the third time. The teacher's bed work is very good, both sides enjoy it very much. But after more than a month of communication, the teacher sent WeChat. The main idea is to think about it carefully. I do not think I like Vincent very much. They are very match in bed. She was very euphemistic and a little guilty. She felt that she could not find a man as long as he was in bed.
Vincent felt very suddenly that he thought he might not have met her spiritual needs in some places, and she took care of him, and he didn't take care of her. He likes NBA, she likes playing the piano, two people do not have too many intersections, but do not touch the soul.
"I think the professional specialties, such as you do HR I do not understand, I do not understand my work, but this does not interfere with communication, I do not understand that I appreciate you, but she asked for resonance." Vincent is a pity to say.
another time, Vincent met a dead fish beauty. He was a little excited: "do you understand this feeling? I don't know whether she is happy or not. She struggled to stop her voice, and she could not teach.
he asked, "why don't you have a voice?"
Why do you want to make a sound?
"I think it's strange that you don't sound."
she can't do it, but she can't hold her voice.
Vincent and she didn't have second more times. "To me is a devastation. She is very beautiful and has a good figure. It's a pity that it's unpleasant on sex. " He said that he did not understand before, but later understood that "old driver" could teach her very well, but Vincent could not change her concept herself.
what I want to find is that it doesn't require much effort.
Vincent said with sincerity, "there must be a problem. Some girls worry about me. Why are they so skinny? Why don't you have a girlfriend? Why don't you buy a house? "
he reflected on his bad temper. "Girls don't need your reasoning, they need to coax. I'm also learning how to get rid of the little things. I can't really argue with girls about minor problems.