Re: blind girl heart doctor: 16 years free psychological assistance for 2000 people.
16 years ago, people in front of Li Fangzhou poured bitter water in different colors. Someone came to him with a baby in his arms. His baby was frightened in the earthquake. He would cry loudly when he saw something shaking. Someone came with a knife and said he wanted to revenge his wife. Someone was carrying a gas tank, and in a hurry, he wanted to blow up the bank. Others have climbed to the rooftop to die.
although nothing can be seen, but from these people's voice, Li Fangzhou can always "sniff" the "suffering" atmosphere. This is the taste she is familiar with at the age of 68.
3 year old high fever, suddenly burned away her life after all the bright. Blind Li Fangzhou could only stay at home when he was young, and listened to the story of adults in storytelling. Gradually, she fell in love with literature and music. At that time, there was no junior high school in the blind school. She had no primary school to graduate, but she had the chance to study in ordinary junior high school.
school, the invisible Li Fangzhou is always squeezed, but she is afraid to be out of school and dare not to make a noise, only to hide to cry secretly, and then devote her energy to study. At grade two, she became an excellent student, standing beside the principal, giving speeches to all the teachers and students. After graduating from
, she studied Chinese medicine knowledge such as massage, acupuncture and so on, and worked everywhere. Beginning to achieve economic independence, Li Fangzhou felt that he was much higher. After the reform and opening up, she set up three private hospitals in Chengdu, and became the inspirational models of newspapers in that era.
"people have too much pain in their lives, but they can't solve this problem by suicide, but to turn these negative things into fertilizer, make themselves more robust, turn them into fuel and make life more vigorous." Li Fangzhou felt that her rich experience gave her a better understanding of life. In the face of the counselors' misfortune, she also had empathy and empathy.
in 80s, in her doctor's career, she often encountered a "disease free" - a patient's body without a problem, but she felt uncomfortable, and someone even gave up life. At that time, most people still did not understand psychological counseling. She could only give advice to her patients with his own life experience and insights. After
2002, Li Fangzhou studied psychology and obtained a senior psychologist qualification certificate. Later, she advertised in the newspaper a free psychological consultation. In the face of hardship, many people will go to extremes. If I can get rid of these things, I will feel very happy.
Li Fangzhou's job is to help them "find a bright exit in the dark" - "to make the eyes more open,
in the dark," - "don't see the dark, we live a lot of things to do. Broaden your horizons and find meaningful things. "
under her suggestion, after the earthquake, the man who felt that life was too fragile and could not find the meaning of living, finally threw himself into the public to help the children who couldn't afford to learn to return to the campus. The person who wanted to retaliate the derailed wife, also extinguished the anger in his heart, decided to go back and talk well, "the big deal was divorced, not necessary"... During
16, Li Fangzhou had done free psychological assistance to more than 2000 people. Sometimes there are so many negative cases that her emotions will be affected. For her, the solution is very simple, plunge into the book or music, "find a vent outlet."
she writes people's stories into their own books. She also wanted to film them, "with box office, royalties and other income, I can run a hope primary school, donate a hope middle school, and a vocational school to cultivate the skills of the disabled." Now, these "miseries" have also become fuel for her life. The light emitted after burning has lit up her own dark world.