Beijing reporter Kan maple
data map: Lan Zitao
this report is entitled "female life Blue Book: report on the living conditions of women in China (2017)", which is jointly issued by the Chinese women's magazine, the center for the life survey of the Chinese women and the publishing house of social sciences. In the blue book, a survey of intimate relationships in marriage is included, from a gender perspective to a comparative observation of the intimate and gender values of marriage. A total of 10556 questionnaires were collected from
survey showed that the respondents agreed that effective communication (84.6%), sexual loyalty (83%) and character conduct (82%) were the three factors contributing to the relationship between husband and wife. Disregard for cold violence (56.4%), suspicion and less trust (53.9%) and derailment (52.4%) were three factors that hurt husband and wife's relationship, and men thought "jealousy less trust" was harm. The first factor is the relationship between husband and wife, while women regard "disregard (Leng Baoli)" as the primary factor.
in addition to the above three main factors of effective communication, sexual loyalty and character conduct, the respondents also have common interest, quality of sexual life, values and enterprising of the 7 important factors affecting the intimate relationship of husband and wife. On the other hand, in addition to indifference to cold violence, suspicion and derailment, the respondents believed that the main factors affecting the relationship of husband and wife were sexual disharmony and domestic violence.
Chart from "report on the status of women's living in China (2017)"
in addition, 41% of the respondents believe that the beauty and figure are very important to the relationship between husband and wife. Among them, the proportion of men holding this view (45.9%) was higher than that of females (38.3%).
the subjective score of the respondents was 7.03. The average score was 7.54, and the average score was 6.75. According to the report, "men can feel better about their intimacy and feel better about their intimacy."
worth mentioning, the survey showed that 54.1% of men and 42.2% of women had "sex disharmony" as a major factor in harming the relationship of husband and wife.
the total score of sexual life is 10 points, the average score of men's self-assessment is 7.65 points, and the average score of women's self-evaluation is 6.86 points. The self-assessment score of the quality of sexual life is related to the degree of Education: the average score of the interviewees is the highest (7.27 points), and the self-assessment score of the interviewees is the lowest.
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in addition, the survey also found that both men and women demand more investment in the family and husband and wife relationship, and "the dual perfection of the family" is the glamour of the glamour of the sexes. 41.4% of the male respondents believed that women who were able to take care of their careers and families were attractive; 71.9% of the respondents believed that both career and family were the standard of male charm.
reported that, according to other indicators, "family and family double perfection" seems to have different implications for men and women. The male family responsibility is based on the success of the career. The successful male is able to bear family responsibilities, have a stable family, a virtuous wife, the advanced children, more male charm and more perfect male; for women, family responsibility is still the first and can take care of the good family. In this case, women who are financially independent and successful will become more attractive and perfect women.
male more emphasis on the role of female family service and caregivers, more than half of the male respondents believe that "out of the hall to the kitchen" (62.6%) and "good understanding, smart and virtuous" (53.9%) is the standard of female charm; women more emphasis on the emotional involvement of men in marriage and personal qualities The ability of female respondents to identify "warm men" (68.6%) and "low-key connotation" (55.6%) is the male glamour standard.