Ji'nan mom squeezed into the "anxiety list" before ten decompression best buy buy buy
Qilu Evening News reporter Fan Jia
recently, UC big data published the first Chinese mother's "Chinese mother" "anxiety index" report. The report shows that Ji'nan's mother squeezed into the top ten of the "anxiety list", of which the mother of the 80's financial and Internet industry was the most anxious. They not only worry about children's health and other family affairs, but also worry about their appearance and physique. The
report shows that the top ten cities of Chinese mothers' anxiety index are both a second line city, the most anxious of which is Shanghai's mother, followed by Beijing, Shenzhen, and Ji'nan in tenth.
as the only child of the first generation, the pressure on mothers born after 80 is far ahead of their parents. School district housing, children's enrollment, elderly support, two child stress and so on, all increased their anxiety.
80 Chen Xin is a full-time mother. Her eldest daughter is four years old, and now she has 5 months pregnant. When she was pregnant with two treasures, it happened to be the decoration of her private enterprise. She decided to quit her job and do housework at home for the sake of her health. Life at two points turned into pots and pans, which made her very uncomfortable. "And it is clear that the home day is tight, we have to return more than 4000 of the mortgage monthly, the husband entered ten thousand, waiting for the two treasure, and a lot of increase, think very uneasy."
search and read the heat according to the relevant content, the report shows that the ten major family anxiety factors of Chinese mothers are child health, child education, husband and wife relationship, children's personal safety, family economic accumulation, mother-in-law relationship, support for the elderly, housework, two children, and marriage of children. The most important thing for mothers to worry about is their children. They want to have their two world.
the son of Zhang Xiaoshuang, a post-90s mother in Ji'nan, was two years old. Because she and her husband were busy with her work, she had to take the child to the mother's home in Zibo. At the weekend, if two people had time, she drove back to her mother's house and the children to spend the weekend. In this way, the pressure on the children was relieved, but Zhang Xiaoshuang found that his son was gradually estranged from himself. Besides grandma, he did not want to sleep with others. Wherever you go, grandma needs to be around.
"and the old people are always separated from each other. Her educational ideas are many I do not agree with, but there is nothing I can do." Now Zhang Xiaoshuang is pregnant with a second child, she made up her mind, the child must take care of himself, but the two children usually take care of them, whether they need to connect their parents, how to get along with the people... At the thought of these, she was anxious.
in the face of so much anxiety, the report from the reading heat analysis, the mother group's favorite way to vent is "buy and buy", in addition to "cry" "eat snacks", "fitness" "psychological counseling" is not subject to attention.
psychologist: Zheng Qingqing, the two child mother who told his family and friends about />
32, said that the happiest day of the day was to coax the baby into a snack and watch the Korean drama. However, the consequences of eating snack are gaining weight and spending.
, Professor Zhang Hongtao, vice president of Ji'nan Mental Health Association, said that buying, buying, crying and so on are not the best way of catharsis. Shopping can only temporarily distract attention. And through professional psychological consultation, we can clear our minds in the confusion and suddenly see the light. By examining the predicament, we can enhance our ability to solve problems and gain inner growth. In addition, you can also confide in your trusted family and friends.
Zhang Hongtao said, in peacetime, we should cultivate more and more interest in life and strengthen his own spiritual growth, pay attention to related books and create their own strong psychological capital.