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in Chinese traditional culture, everyone acquiescence "male owner outside female owner", making money to support a family is a man's duty, and education The child became a mother's part.
but the development of an excellent child is the need for the father to participate, the father brings to the child is brave, the sense of responsibility and the rule consciousness, this is the mother can not give, but is a good person necessary.
psychologists have found that 20% of a person's success depends on the day after tomorrow, and 80% on his father's teaching.
the German philosopher E Frome said in his "the art of love", "the father can not represent the nature, but represents the other pole of human existence, that is the role of the realm of thought, the world of science and technology, the world of legal order, the world of experience and adventure, and so on. Father is one of the children's mentors. He refers to children's path to the world. Obviously, the importance of father involvement in family education is an indisputable fact.
behind many excellent children, there is not necessarily a rich father, but they will have a father who will train their children.
what kind of dad is the easiest child to develop?
1, know how to do a good demonstration of the father
two days Party, everyone chatted about the children to learn, Xiao Li said that his child was first in the middle of the exam in the middle of the exam, and the composition contest won the special prize.
everyone was very jealous of her education and asked her how to educate her children. She laughed and said, "it's all my husband, I didn't get in the hand."
let Xiao Li's husband say something. He was embarrassed to scratch his head and said nothing. If you do not do well, you will criticize two sentences. But don't always feel that you know more than children, be modest, and give children a good example.
reminds Xiao Li that he had sent such a circle of friends before.
the friends below say that Xiao Li's husband will educate the children too.
Xiao Li's son is in grade five this year, and his grades are excellent. He is often praised by the teachers at the parents' meeting. After school, children know to go home to do homework, and to paint in their spare time, which is the "children of other people's parents".
when your mothers are staring at their children every night and write their homework, Xiao Li is using the mask to see the American opera, and do not worry about the problem of the children's learning.
only a father who knows how to demonstrate can he bring up a good child.
you want to teach children not to be picky eaters, then give children an example of not picky eaters.
a lot of dad's home is to play with a mobile phone and play a computer, and it's fun to play, but the child is looking at it and not learning.
Xiao Li said that when the child was in the first grade, as long as the child was writing his homework, his father read the book next to him, and the child saw his father in the study, and he hurried to finish his homework. After writing, both father and son go to play table tennis together.
later the child became accustomed to it, and his father would not have to accompany the child, and the child would take the initiative to learn it himself.
Why did people in the past say "one day is a teacher and a father for life"?
the influence of the father on the child is extremely far-reaching because the teacher has taught you something, has made a lot of effort on you, and is equal to your father in status.
now this sentence should be changed slightly, and become "one day for father, lifelong teacher".