I once saw a father standing on the street to reprimand children, the attitude of the children is not only afraid, even the people think that the father is especially ugly.
in fact, children are not disobedient, they should deliberately disobey you, but sometimes they are wrong in educating their children.
don't always take a "I'm your father, you'll listen to me" to educate the child and blossom on the butt of a child hit by force.
finally, the child is grieved, you are too angry to eat. Why not communicate with children well and have an equal dialogue with children?
the word "father" should not be cold and without temperature. He should be warm enough to make the child feel warm.
a few days ago, I went to my brother's house and saw him lift up the sofa and pad the sofa legs.
I asked: what do you do? What is the effort to do?
elder brother said, when the niece was young, the sofa was too high. When niece climbed, it was very bad, and it was easy to fall. I saw off the leg of the sofa. Now the child is a little bit taller. The sofa is too low. I put something on it, so it is convenient for the child to sit.
the old brother's busy and sweaty look reminds me of his youth, to buy a house, to buy furniture, and often to be a porter after work, to make a little money and not to buy anything all day.
when the sofa just bought, he even refused to disclose the plastic film on the sofa. For the sake of children's safety, he was willing to sawn the sofa leg.
I looked at the house, with thick blankets on the ground, safety stickers on the bench and chair, and a thick protective cover in all the corners of the corner.
niece is a little girl who is very considerate of her parents. Every time he goes off work, he will help his father change his slippers and pour water for his mother, which is filial piety. When I go home, I help clean up my own room. I seldom worry about my parents.
relatives sometimes laugh at the old man, "I don't know where to get lucky. There is such a cute daughter."
in fact, there is no bliss in this world. It is just a cause and effect cycle.
How can a father who is careful in small matters and feel warm for children can not cultivate a daughter who is obedient and obedient?
the Chinese are always implicative, not saying "I love you", but the small details of the ordinary life can reflect "love or not love".
the child is very sensitive, and his father can feel it in his care and consideration in his life. A father who feels warm for a child will not only harvest happy families, but also harvest excellent children.
father in the wrestling daddy once said this: "Daddy can't protect you all the time, daddy is only responsible for teaching you to fight."
children whose parents can't accompany their children's lives can use their words and deeds to influence their children. If you want to cultivate an excellent child, you must depend on a father who is good at demonstrating, learning to accompany, and letting children feel warm.