Most let the elderly sad words inventory: "leave me alone" first
New Culture newspaper reporter Jiang Yanyan Bi Jihong intern Ding orange
the new year is the time to reunite with the family. For some children, they should spend the Spring Festival with their parents living in nursing homes. At this time of family reunion, do you know about the old man's mind? What do they want most?
the reporter surveyed 5 large family care homes in Changchun, 80 questionnaires were issued, and 59 valid questionnaires were collected. The reporter found that 92% of the elderly liked the reunion of their children. The most grieving words for your parents are, "leave me alone!"
the most wanted gift? People choose the most important thing,
topic: what do you want for a gift? Options are: A food, health care products B clothing C books D smartphone E other E (can be filled out) F is not important, people to the most important
the elderly are almost selected the desired gift after the selection of the F item. No matter what the economic conditions are, what the elderly expect more is the return of family ties.
followed by option D. At the age of 78, Gao Guang Fu marked a small character after the option: the Samsung mobile phone can see the picture of the child's granddaughter. They want to see pictures of their children. And the elderly want books and radio, all want to reach out to the outside world.
a small option to see the old man's heart. Their loneliness is written on paper.
what day do you like most? Spring Festival or birthday because reunion
topic: what's your favorite day and the most annoying days?
favorite days, the choice of Spring Festival and birthday accounted for 92%; the annoying days were children's absence or tomb sweeping day.
the old people say that they like Spring Festival or birthday, because only then can children come back and the family will be together.
82 year old Li Xiuyuan and his wife live in Changchun love medical care home for the aged. There are 5 children in the old two, most of them live and work in the field, and their children often visit them in the nursing home. When asked about my favorite day, Li Xiuyuan said excitedly, "look at me, I live so much, my favorite day is just a few days ago." It was the new year's day in 2014, and the grandson in Beijing returned to Changchun with his wife and only a few months old grandsons. The family gathered in the nursing home, holding the little grandson, Li Xiuyuan was too happy to shut up. "That day, I was so happy! So far it's still endless! "
"I like my birthday best, and my children can come over on their birthday." Yin Ruilan, 80, said. What's the most worried about
? Illness is the first
topic: what is your biggest concern?
what is the most afraid of people? Although the answer is not uniform, the most important thing is to be afraid of illness. 29 elderly people filled out the fear of their illness, accounting for 49% of the surveyed population. Gao Guangfu, 78, said, "the old man is ill, and life is hard for himself."
worry not only about their illness but also their children's illness. In the words of children, there are many elderly people who urge children to pay attention to their bodies, exercise more, and keep their bodies healthy.
the next thing that worries the elderly is economic problems. Among the respondents, 9 were elderly without income. Almost all of them were worried. Some elderly people with lower income and one thousand yuan pension are also concerned about this problem. Such old people all say that they can not afford their children as much as possible, but they also want their children to protect their normal life.
the most sad sentence: "leave me alone!"
Title: what is the last thing you want to hear from your children?
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"although we are old, we can't help the children anything, but this is the heart." Wei, who is 68 years old, is reluctant to set pen to face in the face of this problem. Finally, she wrote down 4 words: you leave me alone!
"I'm her mother. I don't care who she cares." Besides, I think of her too! " MS Wei has two daughters, both of whom are graduate students. The big daughter is studying abroad, the little daughter works in a hospital in the country, work is very good, but the personal problem is slow to solve, became the mother's heart, "she is busy, no time, I just come to the nursing home life. But this family is a girl's life. Can I not worry about it! " Every time I call, I urge my daughters to stall them all the time and say, "leave me alone!"
to hear the feeling of this sentence, Wei described, like a knife cut into the heart. "Sometimes hanging up the phone, stealing tears, feel that my mother is incompetent!"
she said, "children know their parents' kindness." Expecting her daughter to have children in the future, she can understand her mother's mood.
except five or six elderly people selected "do not care me", "I am very busy, no time" in the second seat, "you are old" and "do not say, no use" to separate the three or four.