http://sd.sdnews.com.cn/jinan/201502/t20150212_1850865.htm
http://sd.sdnews.com.cn/jinan/201502/t20150212_1850865.htm
Valentine's day. Under the colorful neon lights, a pair of lovers in the bustling street, girls With a bunch of roses in his hand, he nestled up on the shoulders of the boys. Such a scenario is doomed not to belong to Sun Guofang, 27 years old.
but this seemingly weak woman is going to give her husband Li Fangdong a special Valentine's Day gift. In October 2014, Li Fangdong was diagnosed with uremia. His tall and strong body turned to his body. In order to save her husband's life, Sun Guofang decided to dedicate his own kidney.
at the end of last year, Sun Guofang and Li Fangdong matched successfully. At the beginning of the month, eight, two people will undergo a renal replacement operation.
[selling jewelry for mother-in-law]
this is an unfortunate family. God seems to make them suffer all the human suffering.
in 2010, Sun Guofang's mother-in-law, Li Fangdong's mother, was diagnosed with uremia by the hospital. Sun Guofang said that when she and Li Fangdong were not married, the mother-in-law was not in good health. "She has been taking medicine until 2010, and she was diagnosed as uremia."
that year, for Sun Guofang, it was supposed to be a particularly festive year, the house had just built a new house, and the love between her and Li Fangdong came to the world that year.
but all of this is diluted by the illness of Sun Guofang's mother-in-law.
because Sun Guofang's mother-in-law's body is no longer able to bear the impact of kidney replacement surgery, it can only rely on dialysis to maintain life. The high cost of dialysis has gradually brought the family down.
at that time, Sun Guofang worked in Ginza, and Li Fangdong worked in a chemical plant in Ji'nan. The work seemed decent, but the wages of the two people could not afford a bottomless dialysis cost. "In order to cure my mother-in-law, I spent about 200000 of my family on loan from relatives and friends." Sun Guofang wiped her tears and said that even the jewelry she had got married changed her money. Although there are some grievances in mind, Sun Guofang has never said a word "no" to Li Fangdong.
in order to take care of her mother-in-law and to make more money, Sun Guofang left his job with Li Fangdong on the street of the city's third courtyard, and set up a breakfast stall. Two years ago, there was a doorstep to be sublet on the street. Sun Guofang and Li Fangdong discussed the price of 30 thousand yuan and sold the meat. "The meat that my husband makes is delicious." Recalling the experience of the two children selling meat together, Sun Guofang's face was full of pride and happiness.
refusing her husband's request for separation]
ten square meter cottage, a hearth, four tables. The couple got up early and went home late. But the efforts of the couple did not prevent mother from leaving.
hit the heels. After the death of Sun Guofang's mother-in-law, Li Fangdong continued to have a high fever, accompanied by vomiting. Later, Li Fangdong secretly asked Sun Guofang to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination. The result was like a bolt from the blue: Li Fangdong was also diagnosed by the hospital as uremia.
in fact, this is a warning. Before the two men got married, Li Fangdong found urine protein in a routine physical examination organized by the unit. He was told that he might develop in a bad direction.
at that time, Sun Guofang and Li Fangdong were in love. After medical examination, in order not to drag on Sun Guofang, Li Fangdong found Sun Guofang to break up, Sun Guofang absolutely refused. After years of
, Li Fangdong's worry became a reality, but Sun Guofang never regretted his decision. "At that time, the situation was not very serious. There was nothing wrong with eating and drinking. No one thought of it as uremia." In Sun Guofang's eyes, uremia is a very, very distant thing. But fate had made her two close relatives suffer from uremia.
that night, Sun Guofang sent a circle of friends, and she snuggled up to Li Fangdong on the shoulder. She said, "we all have to be good, to make up the mood, to be ready to open." After
diagnosis, Li Fangdong went home directly from the hospital regardless of the discouragement from doctors, friends and family. "My mother-in-law has just experienced things, he is very clear that the disease no matter how much money, the final result may be people's money two empty." Sun Guofang said, Li Fangdong as the top pillar of the family, there are old and small, he considered a lot of things, but Sun Guofang in the heart only one idea, that is to cure the disease.
but after returning home, Li Fangdong saw his 4 year old son soft hearted. He decided to go back to the hospital for treatment. After the fall of
husband, Sun Guofang changed his job in the original store to start a hand-made dumpling and home cooking business. "If you sell meat, a barrel of meat will be too heavy for me." Sun Guofang decided to carry the family on his own.
"for his father to have a son, I have a husband, my son has a father"
Sun Guofang originally intended to use dialysis to maintain Li Fangdong's life, and to find the right kidney source, give him a change of kidney surgery. But the development of the matter would not take into account her desire, Li Fangdong's physical condition turned down, heart failure, lung infection and other complications, Li Fangdong had been under the hospital two times, fortunately, all survived.
"I can't wait for his illness to wait." Sun Guofang said, Li Fangdong 180 centimeters, 180 Jin of the size of the body caused the impurities in his blood can not come out, the more the more, the more than to find the right kidney donor, she decided to give her one kidney to her husband. "My father-in-law is not very good. He has diabetes. His kidney can not be changed. I can only try it."
Sun Guofang did so. She said, "just to make his father have a son, I have a husband, and my son has a father."
Li Fangdong was silent when he heard the news.
his heart is more contradictory than anyone else. But Sun Guofang's mother family finally decided to support her daughter. "My parents said, save the people first."
at the end of last year, Sun Guofang went to General Hospital of Jinan Military Area to do the matching. When she gave the list of "husband for kidneys" to the doctor, the three doctors solemnly saluted Sun Guofang for a salute. Sun Guofang's nose was sour and his tears came down.
this time, God finally took care of her. A week later, the hospital informed Sun Guofang that the match was successful.
when Sun Guofang told Li Fangdong the news, Li Fangdong was silent again.
"we don't have any blood ties. It's not easy to have a match." Sun Guofang said, "people say that the longer they live together, the longer they will be."
[the most romantic thing: hand in hand 40 minutes)
yesterday, Li Fangdong was in the city's third house for dialysis, and Sun Guofang was still busy at the door of the hospital. "To do business during the day, to deliver food to him, and to accompany him in the hospital at night." Sun Guofang said, now Li Fangdong will vomit in an hour after dinner, and can't lie down to sleep at night, so he can only sit down.
every night in the dead of night, Sun Guofang accompanied Li Fangdong, sitting in the ward, silent.
Sun Guofang lamented the unfairness of her fate. She did not want to look at an excellent man. "He was a city class student, filial to his parents, and to his friends."
Sun Guofang said that Sun Guofang said that their fate began in a muddled middle school. "He was three years old, and when he went to high school in high school, we were in the same middle school." In the third year of that year, Sun Guofang met Li Fangdong, but the official connection was in 2007.
that year's party, Sun Guofang was attracted by the tall and handsome Li Fangdong, and Li Fangdong had a good feeling about Sun Guofang, and then the two people went closer. Li Fangdong, the responsible person and the responsible man, was too shy to express his words, and never surprised Sun Guofang's love.
in December 25, 2008, Li Fangdong and Sun Guofang received a marriage certificate. On that day, Li Fang "deceived" Sun Guofang to say that the Civil Affairs Bureau was close to the bus stop. So the two of them held hands and walked for 40 minutes to get to the station. Long time, that is Sun Guofang's most romantic recollection so far.
now, the two son is more than 4 years old, and Sun Guofang is full of guilt to his son. "I'm not free. His grandfather takes him. He's not with me at all. Sometimes he goes to sleep at night and he doesn't hold it." But yesterday, my son called Sun Guofang, and his son said, "Mommy, today is a little year. You can come back to us to make dumplings."
Li Fangdong did not express his guilt in the face of his wife who was willing to live for himself, but he told reporters that he owed his wife too much, "this is the best Valentine's Day gift she gave me, and he gave me second lives."