The difference between mother's family and spring festival custom is that the details are the same.
Shun Net - Ji'nan Daily reporter Han Xiaopeng
annual Spring Festival, our self drive is Ji'nan - Jimo - Wendeng - Jimo - Ji'nan. Although it is a new year, not only the customs in Shandong province are different, my husband and my old home are in the Jiaodong Peninsula, 200 kilometers apart from Jimo and Wendeng, and there are many differences in the year of the law.
grandpa and his mother-in-law are busy with
Jiaodong custom. The girl who gets married must spend the new year at her husband's home, and then go back to her home at the beginning of three. In fact, Wendeng is the first two home, and I have followed the rules of Jimo in the past couple of years.
both parents are over 70 years old, but they have great enthusiasm for busy years. Their division of labor is that the mother-in-law is responsible for tidying up the house, and the father-in-law is responsible for various purchases. After we arrived home at twenty-seven, he had bought seafood ice, 8 pig's hoof, 4 farm chickens, a dozen kilograms of pork ribs, and the year paintings, couplets, night flowers, new bowls and fruits, and these were only half of the Spring Festival. This large purchase campaign lasted until thirty in the morning. He is steadily advancing in accordance with his own purchase plan, and he doesn't like his children's help.
the seafood must be early, except for the big fish. It's much more expensive to get to the root of the year! Almost every year, he will have a few points to communicate with him.
the Jiaodong food and seafood is more
when we enter the door, the male mother-in-law makes the 8 pig's hoofs to make his hand dish.Amp; mdash.amp; mdash Liuting grilled hoofs. Then cook the ribs and chicken in turn, fry the hairtail, flounder and other fish, and then process them during the festival.
because of the coastal cities of the coastal cities of Jimo and Wendeng, there are many kinds of seafood, oysters, scallops, sea conch, sea rainbow, jellyfish.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip is known as small seafood by the father-in-law, sea fish, sea cucumber, prawns and other expensive seafood by him to be regarded as a big seafood. Whether it is the year's dinner, or the guests' banquet, he attaches great importance to the big seafood. To buy a few deep sea fish with a suitable price and a large size can make him happy all the year. Although
are all Jiaodong Peninsula, the two cities of Jimo and Wendeng have different accents and different years. In the busy year, the male stew and stewed beef stew are hands-on, but the boies are bought home from the market, and the steamed bun stores are everywhere on the street. This shop is rarely seen in Wendeng, because the busy year of the family begins with the housewives' big steam cooking.
in my memory, when mom even steamed for two days, the year is really coming. Therefore, I have bought this kind of method from the market, and I always feel a little less delicious.
Jimo has also retained the old rules of greeting and ancestor, kowtow between close relatives. These are not enough in my home in Wendeng. New year's Eve is the most important night of the two new year's Eve. Both places eat two dinners.Amp; mdash.amp; mdash eat dumplings for dinner and have dinner at New Year's Eve.
the father-in-law will show you the results of his busy year at the dinner table, so there are usually no less than 16 dishes. He ate very little himself, but wished to see his grandchildren feast on it. Because I am not at home, my parents in Wendeng are on the eve of the new year's Eve. In the past few years, they simply played hot pot on New Year's Eve, which is simple and lively. In fact, a little bit of a little helpless to be a daughter.
after dinner, they entered the new year's long awaited link. First of all, the father-in-law's mother-in-law sits on the sofa, and the new generation kowtow to each other. Knock your head off and say "Mom and Dad" (grandma and grandpa) happy New Year! Wish you good health!
until now, I am not accustomed to kneeling down this ritual style of New Year greeting. Because in Wendeng, men and women do not have to kowtow to any elders. Just a happy new year, the elders immediately took out the red envelope. In contrast, this is the traditional way to pay new year visits, which is more traditional and more ceremonial, and better reflects respect for elders.
these years, I feel that the so-called new year is actually busy with their parents. In the acquisition, cooking, enjoyment, chat, game of all kinds of trivial things, complete a family reunion.