The 85 year old goes to the children's village every year to offer love and kindness and move to lose his mother.
source: Chinese business network - Chinese business newspaper Author: Zhao Ruili
16 years ago, Ms. yuan's son died of leukemia at the age of 15. She was trapped in a bereavement and was lonely after a divorce. Now 60 years old, she thought life was meaningless. When she saw the love affair with the 85 year old Wang who reported yesterday, she saw hope and hope to dedicate her love to children in the children's village.
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16 years ago, Ms. yuan lived in Wuxing Street in Xi'an city. At that time, she had a happy family of three, the 15 year old son was clever, the man boasted, the son had died of leukemia, the son died of leukemia, Miss yuan thought Can not accept it has been difficult to extricate themselves, and soon divorced.
"I cried when I was holding my son's picture every day, and the whole people collapsed." Ms. Yuan said that in order to cure her son's illness, the house was also sold. After she divorced her husband, she stayed at her parents' home.
with the help of parents and brothers and sisters, life has returned to normal, but she still does not want to contact the outside world. "I am afraid to see other children, and I will think of my son when I see them." Ms. Yuan said. In 2011, when her parents died, Ms. yuan did not want to disturb her brothers and sisters. She went around to rent her friends' home or to the surrounding countryside.
read Grandma Wang's story, she felt no longer pessimistic
"I saw the story of Grandma Wang encouraged." Yesterday, she received a call from Ms. yuan. The reporter came to her residence, Tuen Nan Road, Far East and West. This is an old-fashioned tube shaped apartment. Ms. yuan lives in a single room rented by Ms. fan.
"I basically do not go out, I feel nervous and look out of the window." Ms. Yuan said that she lived with a friend's daughter, a single mother with a child. She usually cooked meals for her mother and son. Yesterday, seeing Grandma Wang's story, she felt that she could not continue such a pessimistic life. She should be as strong and optimistic as Grandma Wang to contribute to society.
"I want to cook and wash clothes for the children." Ms. Yuan said that although only 1500 yuan per month is now paid for retirement, she is not able to provide material help to the children, but she wants to provide the children with the service in life.
friends and relatives all support her children's village teacher also welcome her
yesterday, Ms. fan with Ms. Yuan said that the two people have been supporting each other for five or six years. But Ms. yuan always closes herself and is not happy. She will become more open with the children. "My aunt is loving and sure will be good for the children."
Ms. yuan's little sister was also very supportive of her sister's idea. She said, "as long as the elder sister is happy, the whole family will give her full support. My elder sister has been suffering for so many years. Although her brothers and sisters are willing to help her, she always does not want to live in other people's homes.
yesterday, Fan Xizhen, head of children's village children's village in Shaanxi Province, said children in the children's village also need to be taken care of. If Ms. yuan is free, they can visit children at any time.
"I'm very supportive of Xiao Yuan's idea." Yesterday, at the age of 85, Grandma Wang heard that Ms. yuan was very sympathetic. She encouraged Ms. yuan to go out of the shadow and go to the children to live happily. She felt that the dedication of love could also reap love.
go out to help the elderly live a happy life in
the director of the Institute of Sociology of the Xi'an Academy of Social Sciences said that Miss yuan, such as Miss yuan, has millions of people in our country, and their life needs the attention of the whole society. Ms. yuan can go to society and do something that can be done. It can mediate her mood well. It is a good way to get out of the pain. "Their loneliness is especially strong and needs certain psychological assistance." At the same time, the elderly who lose their independence should interact with others and integrate themselves into social mediation.