Baby's independent parents should make the baby "trial and error"
my baby has just been two and a half years old, and recently, he has to do anything, whether he will or not, if he does not try his heart, he will cry. Yesterday, we went home from the outside. He had to open the door with his key and opened it for a long time. I couldn't stand it. I opened the door. This was a hornet's nest. He cried for half a clock. Excuse me, is this the normal performance of the baby's growth? Or my baby's special twist?
Hot Mama: if you ask the baby to do it yourself is not normal, I'd like to ask you, the ducklings wobbly follow their mother to learn to swim, the little lion clumsily followed his mother to learn to eat, the eagle flapping wings with its wings. Is it normal to learn to fly with your mother? If your answer is yes, then the baby's performance at this time is perfectly normal, the first step for him to go to independence.
the baby about two years old, self consciousness began to germinate, and his heart was filled with the desire to explore and conquer the surrounding world - one of the motive forces of human evolution. It is one of the manifestations of this desire to come to everything. To be a mother, it is necessary to protect this desire so as to help him grow better.
see the example you say, if I am you, I will give him the key, give him the time, and let him think about how to open the door. He will certainly "try" over and over again. Do not easily disturb, when he finds it impossible, he will correct himself, get experience from mistakes, grow to him. When he tried for a while, he told him, "Mom will come with the baby." if you usually have enough respect for the baby and have enough authority, he will accept your advice. At this time, you should slow down and demonstrate the right unlocking skills to him, so that he will remember more. Of course, the baby can not learn to lock through a demonstration, but several times such experience, he will slowly master, more importantly, he gained confidence.
in fact, no matter what kind of thing, if the baby asks "yourself", it should give him the opportunity to study unless he will hurt himself or others. Perhaps, you will think that the practice in the previous article needs too much patience, the essence of raising children, embodied in the details, and when you are careful enough to care for the child's growth, do you not get better yourself?