23 day, a citizen is dealing with the marriage registration office in the calendar. Newspaper reporter Wang Guangying
32 pairs! In 2010, the provincial city handled 11715 divorce procedures, with an average of 32 couples breaking up every day. Deputy director of the Municipal People's Congress and director of Shandong Pengfei law firm Fu Qiang suggested that a divorce mediation center be set up at each marriage registration office. The Ji'nan Civil Affairs Bureau said it would set up a divorce consultation window in the future to set a calm period for both sides of divorce.
statistics
last year, 11715 couples divorced some young couples to break up too simple
"now the divorce rate is too high, and the reasons for divorce are different, most of which are due to life trifles." On the 23 day, Fu Qiang, the representative of the Municipal People's Congress, said that there had been a pair of "post - 80" couples who had found him to get a divorce. The reason was not that two people had bad feelings, because they were in contradiction to their parents' living habits.
statistics show that the number of divorces in the provincial capital is increasing. "There were 11715 couples in Ji'nan last year to go through the divorce procedures. They were distributed in all ages. 'after 80', 'flashing' was not particularly prominent as it was considered by the public." 23 morning, Li Naifang, director of Social Affairs Department of Ji'nan Civil Affairs Bureau, told reporters. According to this data, on average, 32 couples split up every day in provincial capital in 2010. "
" a lot of young people feel that they have led the red book without passion. This year, there was a couple of couple's Valentine's day marriage and second days to divorce. " On the 23 day, Sun Aijun, director of the marriage registration office of Ji'nan City Central District, said many young people who just got married might come to divorce because of a quarrel. "There was not a couple of divorces a day before, and now there are about 5 pairs every day. In 2010, only 1703 couples were relieved of marriage in the Central District Civil Affairs Bureau."
Liu Gang, the director of the registration office of the calendar, told reporters that 1800 couples were divorced in the new year's calendar, of which 324 were divorced in the first year of marriage, which accounted for 18%, and the number was still a lot.
for a long time in legal work, our country advocates marriage voluntarily, the freedom of divorce, the formalities for the registration of marriage is very loose, and the procedure for the divorce is more simple. "It is finished in 5 minutes, faster than the marriage registration."
reason analysis
the number of middle-aged divorces in middle age is the largest number of houses and the number of divorced people is increasing
"in the traditional concept, the middle and old people think conservative, everything is family and children, should be more stable, but in recent years the divorce rate has also increased year by year." Sun Aijun said that as children grow up and their ideas are gradually open, the number of divorced thirty or forty year old people is increasing, which is a new trend of divorce registration in recent years, and more and more middle-aged people also choose to pursue their own happiness.
Li Naifang also told reporters that among the divorced population, the proportion of middle-aged people is the highest, and the divorce phenomenon of the elderly is also quite numerous. "80 after" and "flash away" also occupy a considerable proportion, but it is not the most prominent among the whole divorced population. "
" now the young people are very personality, happy
looking for excitement, marriage is too much bound, life is not passionate, marriage is a risk of broken. Liu Gang said that most of the middle-aged and old people choose to go their separate ways because of different personality, different life concepts and values.
according to the briefing, not long ago, there were two elderly people who had gone through the golden wedding together in the Central District of the city for the divorce. Eight. There are many children in the old man, but the two elderly people like children are different. In order to divide the property among the children they like, the two elderly people agree to divorce. The distribution of the property in the agreement is very detailed, and the ancestral antiques and so on in the family are also divided by agreement. The woman also writes clearly about the things that her mother married at that time.
"policy divorce is also a new trend due to factors such as demolition". Liu Gang said last December 31st that there were more than 30 couples in a village for divorce, which was the first phenomenon of divorce in the history of the calendar. "After understanding, we know that the village has to be relocated and separated, and after divorce, it can get dozens of square meters of houses."
department response
set up a divorce consultation window to set up a divorce procedure to set a buffer period
Fu Qiang told reporters, "the two young people who are divorced because of their parents' habits and habits are very sentimental. It's a pity that I spent 10 minutes to do the work for both parents." The problem is solved. " Fu Qiang thought, "if the husband and wife who have been divorced in the marriage registry will be in good faith, throw cold water on both sides and let them ease up, maybe they will be away."
proposal to set up a mediation center (room) in the city's marriage registration office to add a program to divorce, or to persuade them to get divorced, or let them come back for second days, and even keep them cool for an hour. "On the one hand, it can protect the legitimate rights and interests of women and children, and it is also very meaningful for reducing the divorce rate and maintaining family stability." Fu Qiang said.
"we have set up a similar social service institution before, but the effect is not very good. It is best to set a cooling off period." Liu Gang believes that many of the divorced people do not accept the mediation of the staff because of the Chinese "family ugly". "In order to reduce blind divorce, it is best to set up a buffer period of two weeks or a month."
for this, Li Naifang believes that the proposal of the NPC deputies is very good. The civil affairs department also has such plans at present. It is ready to set up a divorce consultation window in the various marriage registries, and arrange special counseling experts to persuade couples who deal with the divorce procedures.
"Hongkong stipulates that divorce has a 5 month interval from application to application, which will calm both sides." Li Naifang said it also plans to set a buffer period for divorce procedures, allowing both parties to think in a certain amount of time and to persuade relatives and friends to reduce the number of impulsive divorces.
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"post-80s" marriage is a low risk of concern about housework.
with the "Post 80", their marital status has been more and more attention. The survey shows that the post-1980s marriage is not optimistic.
the head of the Lixia District Civil Affairs Bureau of Ji'nan said that in recent years, the number of divorced young couples in Ji'nan has increased year by year. Among them, after 80 years of divorce, the "80 generation" accounted for 18% of the total number of divorces. In Chongqing, 306 thousand couples were married in the last year, while 94 thousand and 700 couples went their separate ways, an increase of 11 thousand and 600 compared to the 83 thousand and 100 couple divorces in the city in 2009. It is understood that the most unstable group of marriages is young people aged between 23 and 32, followed by middle-aged couples aged between 40 and 49.
judge Shi Jinxia, the Fengtai District court of Beijing, dealt with many "post-1980s" divorce cases, and Shi judge said that "household low energy" is the "soft rib" of the "after 80" marriage life. According to traditional marriage concept, women should do housework. The "post - 80" women seldom do housework before marriage. Many of them do not want to turn around the housework after marriage. These people think that the husband should "pet" themselves after marriage. This new marriage concept conflicts with the traditional marriage concept, which leads to conflicts between the husband and wife and become a hidden danger of divorce.