Her husband suffered from cerebral hemorrhage and paralysis for 8 years. Shenyang women did not abandon the cross stitch for selling money.
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to subsidize the household, Zhao Yanjie took care of the paralyzed husband's intermission cross stitch and took time to sell the time to the nearby sale . Liao Shen Evening News, chat client client-side map
"is it difficult to accompany me and my son?" Just blink two eyes and close it again. " This is a couple in communication. In
18, Zhao Yanjie took care of her grandmother who was paralyzed in bed and later took care of her husband who was unable to express a cerebral thrombosis. She pulled her husband back from the death line.
every day she gives her husband a nutritious meal, but he steals bread on his own, while he is asleep, he sews cross stitch and takes time out to exchange money for medical expenses.
when her husband says "thank you", she comes out of tears of excitement. "All the work is worth it, and love is going to be together..."
take care of the two old people a child
her thin more than 10 jin a month
3 month 29 p.m. at 2 p.m., Zhao Yanjie, 46 years old, is doing the work of cleaning. She is busy finishing her home to feed her husband and feed her husband, help her husband wash his body, change the wet mattress, and when her husband is sleeping, she sews cross stitch, and draws out time. To exchange money for medical expenses, such a life is Zhao Yanjie never thought about, and before that, she has been taking care of paralyzed bed in law.
Zhao Yanjie's husband, Chang Li Nan, is 47 years old this year. It was a worker from a company in Tiexi district.
20 years ago, he met Zhao Yanjie for second years. The birth of his son brought a lot of joy to the family.
one year after marriage, Zhao Yanjie's father-in-law was paralyzed. She took care of the father and took care of her son, who was just 1 years old. "The mother-in-law was not so good at that time."
fourth years of the father-in-law's paralysis, the mother-in-law's condition aggravated, "they all lie in bed, then the son is still small, the husband has to go out to make money, I take care of two old man and one child, I lost more than 10 jin a month."
2009, the mother-in-law died, 3 years ago, the male also died, thought that the life of the hardships to leave them, in May 2010, the husband who is working outside the brain bleeding...
her husband had three cerebral hemorrhage
she had pulled back her husband from the death line
"after two cerebral hemorrhage, he had to lean forward on the left side of the body, but most of the time was in bed." Zhao Yanjie said.
Zhao Yanjie read and massaged her husband. "For a long time, his body gradually became conscious." Unexpectedly, the husband had third cerebral hemorrhage, and the hospital was informed of the danger.
Zhao Yanjie's husband's life was saved, but he was completely paralyzed and couldn't say anything. "He spasms from time to time. Every time he's twitching, he's sweating and he has urine. I'm afraid he has a bedsore and made a lot of cotton mattresses, and every time he works, I change the mattress."
Zhao Yanjie told reporters that after her husband's second cerebral hemorrhage, he often had no cause of fire, "he was afraid that we would leave him, and then I wouldn't give up." The pressure of a long and high load of life made Zhao Yanjie older than his peers. "I've never slept in a steady sleep for two and a half years. He was good at 2 hours without twitching. I've got used to wake up for an hour and cover the quilt for his bedding."
use eye contact to wake up her husband
third times per day for her husband to make a nutritious meal
the husband lost the ability to express language. They can only use their eyes to communicate. "I told him to close your eyes and guess wrong at the beginning. Slowly I'll sum up, basically one or two times you can guess him." What to do, guess three times at most now. "
during this time, Zhao Yanjie tried to cultivate her husband's ability to speak, and every time she went home, she said what was happening on the day. "At the beginning, he gave out some words like a child, and slowly he could say a word, and then say two words." "
" after the Spring Festival, he said many times, "thank you". I was thrilled at that moment. After that, he said, 'you are a good daughter-in-law', and my efforts are not in vain. He can interact with me.
now, the husband still wants to eat a diet, to plug in the stomach tube, Zhao Yanjie in the gap between the odd job to give her husband three nutritional meals, and through the nasal stomach tube will do a good diet into the husband's stomach... Beside their shoes shelves, eggs, mushrooms and all kinds of vegetables are stacked, all of which are for her husband to prepare nutritious meals.
every day is a variety of cooking for her husband. She can't take a bite of her own. Every meal is a few homemade pickled garlic or pickled cucumbers. "He can get well, our home is still, I'm hard to calculate. I believe that one day life will be better, and the son of the university is particularly supportive."
if you want to help the Zhao Yanjie family or buy her cross stitch, you can get in touch with her. Zhao Yanjie cell phone: 15840072708.