Xiaoming and his home / > 60 years old this year Ms. Guo, a spring citizen, has a heart problem. Her 37 year old son, Xiao Ming (the pseudonym) has "closed" herself for six or seven years. These years have not communicated with other people, or stay at home alone, or go to the Internet bar to play games, do not go out for work, and live in his own world. "I am 60 years old. What if one day I leave?" Ms. Guo said.
growing up from granny's grandfather with "a little strange"
to bring up her son, Ms. Guo has some guilt, when Xiao Ming is small, she does not take care of the children much. "At that time, the work was very busy, and the child was brought up by his grandma and grandpa." Guo said, "when the child was 9 years old, I divorced his father, and then reorganized the family, but the child still lived in my grandmother."
Ms. Guo said that Xiao Ming returned to her when he was 17 years old, and his stepfather was very nice to him. "The child was very introverted when he was young, but he was very kind and intelligent." Later, Xiao Ming studied in a technical school and worked in a factory that produces auto parts after graduation.
after graduating from Xiaoming technical school, Ms. Guo realized that the child was "a bit strange". "The child used to be polite and introverted, but at that time he would quarrel with his family because of a little thing." Ms. Guo said.
"at that time, though the child was introverted and not talkative, who would have thought that he would be like this now?" Ms. Guo said in a choking way.
more than two years after marriage marriage, more than
Xiao Ming was introduced by others at the age of 24, knowing a nurse and getting married for a period of time. "I thought that if my child married, I could have grandchildren and enjoy the happiness." Ms. Guo felt very happy during that time.
after more than two years of marriage, Xiao Ming suddenly proposed divorce. "I don't know why he's getting divorced by now. He doesn't say, my former daughter-in-law can't tell. Ms. Guo once tried to dissuade two people. "In fact, his daughter-in-law did not want to get divorced at that time, and put forward that he could go out first and wait for him to calm down."
however, the retention of Ms. Guo and Xiao Ming's ex-wife did not allow Xiao Ming to change her mind. When Xiao Ming was 27 years old, she was divorced. Before the marriage of
failed many times to start business, and more and more closed its own
Ms. Guo said that after divorce, Xiao Ming did not immediately become the way it is now. "After the divorce, he wanted to do something on his own. We helped him open a hotel, lost money, and went out; we had a stall, lost money and went out on the road of Guangfu Road; he opened a man's apartment in his house and finally did not do it. " Ms. Guo said.
after the closure of the men's apartment, Ms. Guo obviously felt that Xiao Ming's situation was not normal. "Every day he stays at home and surf the Internet, or goes to Internet cafes to play games." Ms. Guo said, "I do not know whether these failures have made him more and more serious." After
, from then on, Xiaoming's condition is getting worse and worse. "Every day I send him a meal, and he doesn't talk to me very much. Generally, he says," Mom, you're here "," slow down when you go downstairs. Don't fall. " Ms. Guo said.
was diagnosed as "cultural related mental disorder" by
6 years ago. "At that time, he did not want to go to the hospital for a checkup with us, or did I cheat him to the hospital. Guo said, "when the child wanted to sell the house, I lied to him that a doctor wanted to buy a house and take him to the hospital."
Ms. Guo recalled that at that time, the doctor asked some questions and asked him to wait in the back. "Then he was given a closed treatment for about a month." According to Guo, at that time, doctors wrote "cultural related mental disorders" in Xiaoming's diagnosis, though she was hard to say, but she always remembered.
but a month later, Ms. Guo picked up Xiao Ming, the reason being Xiao Ming's painting. "He asked a doctor for a pen and drew a picture. It was a self portrait, though not very similar, but it was painted in tears." Ms. Guo said, "there is another line in the picture below, which means that I am going to be mad again if I do this again." Ms. Guo could not bear to take Xiaoming back.
later, Ms. Guo also took Xiao Ming to seek medical treatment, but it had no effect and was boycotted by Xiao Ming. "How can we fool him now? He will not go to the hospital."