It is the misfortune to indulge, not only to have love.
you might be surprised to see this subject as a parent? Maybe not believing that a daughter can hurt a mother? Yes, maybe a lot of mothers don't believe it. Maybe it's just an example, if we don't believe in the facts, the writer won't write it out.
this is a very common three family, the daughter of junior high school, early love, often absenteeism, and always very late home, always spend money is always big, as a mother sometimes asked a daughter's refutation, say go to go Late study, hungry to eat, these reasons are very sufficient, the mother has long been used to the daughter's school, free to go, long, bad habits difficult to change, this is not, only because the money mother did not give time to the mother, the mother also drove the mother out of the family, and himself also wanted to commit suicide and was hit mother. With pain and pain, he climbed into the house and rescued his daughter.
the evening newspaper reporter is my friend, during the new year gossip about this, today in the busy writing of this blog, want to warn the parents: do not indulge their children. Doting is pain, you love is wrong, your love is to instilling children in taking poison, long indulgence is equal to let the child commit suicide in a chronic manner. The rate of juvenile delinquency is very high in our country. Many reasons lead them to go astray. They have talked about the root of juvenile delinquency. Most of them are only children, they are small emperors and little princesses in the family. Their parents drown and their grandparents indulge in love for a long time. The idea that their own ideas must be obedient to their parents and obedience to their children is necessary for many parents, their love is deformed, but for their children, their parents want their children to receive the best treatment, and if their children's wishes fall out of favor, they will cause the child's irritability, rebellion, and escape from home. Court, give up school... Overindulgent children, parents adversity, once the rebellion of children's desire, and come to the unprovoked evil, the house is boiling, and so on, who should swallow these evil fruit?
, as parents hope their children Jackie Chan, but, but, but, Doting is to push children into the fire pit, small indulgence is painful for them, they are big, young, young, do you continue to indulge? A lot of time doting is a lot of money, many children will not understand the hard work of their parents, they think their parents are his cash machine, with the progress of the society, into the vision of teenagers. They are all advanced things. They are asking for money to satisfy their curiosity about new things. However, there are many middle and low level families who have no ability to meet the needs of their children, so the society has plagiarized young children, and they also sell girls, and the bad fruit of early love has also hurt a lot of middle school students. Who do they blame? Who should shoulder these responsibilities? It is also related to the quality of today's teachers, they only take up lessons and accept bribes. They have given up teaching to those who are poor and do not come to school, are they not? There are many unsafe elements in the society. Most of them are the paradise of these wild children. How can their parents sleep in peace? How many families are they? Lights to dawn, how many parents are anxious waiting for the late children? They must self sigh: the result of love!
I think, the child is not coddled to grow up, you give him life to keep him, his wish is only small, and the parents want to give the whole day to your child, want to the world's most beautiful Things are given to your children, this is a kind of thinking misleading, people are to bear pressure to improve, the foot of the road is too flat, it will not make people feel the life will have a twists and turns, the children's way does not need parents completely, give them space.