believe that as a parent, no one wants their children to be short of love, but many parents want to love, but they do not have the ability to love their children, or give their children high quality love.
parents also need to learn to make their mental health grow, better nurture children, and make themselves feel good. It can be done from the following points: what is the effect of lack of love when a child is young?
How can we take care of children during lactation?
24 hours of meticulous care is what children need most. So mothers need help, need mental health (beware of postpartum depression, emotional discord between husband and wife).
family harmony.
as long as the mother is mentally healthy and family is harmonious, raising children will not make any mistakes at all, because motherly love is natural and natural.
parents are emotionally stable.
for parents, emotional stability is very important. Nurture children, one after another, if the parents can not maintain emotional stability, calm and calm handling of things, one encounter is anxious, even hysterical, the consequences are terrible.
can sensitively detect children's emotional state.
when children can't speak, they can take care of their children in time according to their behavior, and parents are sensitive to their children. This one is the most important. The children do not know their feelings, for example, "nonsense, you like this party very much, rather than boring." "How does a child know his feelings and listen to his mother?" In this way, all mothers feel that they know their children's emotions and whether they actually recognize their children's emotions.
author profile:
Tang Hui, child psychological counselor, group counselor.
published books:
baby enter the garden - accompany the child through the key period
to accompany the child through the young critical period
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