Ji'nan tries to foster orphans and disabled children in two parent families
Author: Ma Teng
point to 11:30 at noon, the meal is ready, but 10 year old Zhang Jisheng has not come back. Mother Liu Yanzhen couldn't sit still and urged her husband to go to the child. "Sure, I ran to my neighbor's house again."
later, the child bowed his head and went home. "Mom, I will remember to go home on time."
Zhang Jisheng is the child of the city children's welfare institution. This is the third time he forgot to go home for dinner because he had fun. However, Zhang Jisheng felt very happy. "Finally, my father and mother asked me to go home for dinner."
from June 1st this year, the Ji'nan Municipal Children's Welfare Institute tried to implement the "parent family support" model for the first time, so that some seriously disabled children who could not be adopted had a real home. At present, there are 12 such loving families in the city children's welfare institution, so that orphans and disabled children enjoy the warmth of their families.
new home everything has nail clippers ready
6 morning, the reporter came to Ji'nan Children Welfare Institute. The newly built Ji'nan Children Welfare Institute is a heart shaped building consisting of a corridor, a comprehensive building and a medical building. The apartment building on the first floor and the two floor on both sides of the corridor is the new home of orphan and disabled children raised by their parents.
there are 6 apartment buildings on both sides of the children's Welfare Institute. These units are mostly three rooms, one hall, and some four rooms and two rooms, with an area of about 140 square meters. The staff of the city children's Welfare Institute said that the children who stayed in "love family" were basically very serious, and were less likely to be adopted by the normal family. In order to enable these children to grow up healthily, in the city, for the first time, the "two parent family maintenance" mode was tried, and 12 pairs of "loving parents" were openly recruited to the public. At present, these families have been formally admitted to the children's welfare homes.
in the family of "loving parents" Liu Yanzhen, both the children and the adult bedroom are sunrise rooms, of which two rooms have spacious bright balcony, central air conditioning and heating, the bathroom is relatively independent of the bathroom, and there is another storage room.
Room is painted bright and bright color, such as light yellow, light blue, shallow powder, light purple and so on. The hanging roof of the living room and the bedroom door are decorated with starlike, circular, heart shape and so on to cater for the lively and lovely nature of children. "We'll bring our clothes here. There's everything here." Liu Yanzhen said that all the refrigerators, televisions, cooking utensils and bowls and chopsticks were arranged in the apartment, and all the daily necessities were arranged. "Even the nail clippers are ready."
make a "growth record"
every day, with the family portrait of Liu Yanzhen's family on the east wall of the living room. This is when she and her husband just checked in, they were photographed in the downstairs garden and four children. "The youngest son is 2 years old, and the biggest is just 10 years old." Liu Yanzhen said that instead of looking after four children here, it is better to live in peace and stability.
Liu Yanzhen is more than 50 years old and two children have already got married. At the beginning of this year, she learned that the children's welfare institution wanted to recruit "loving parents". She and her husband made a name and passed the interview successfully.
"I have looked after orphans and disabled children before." She is a native of Tang Wang Village, where there is a foster care base for orphans and disabled children. Liu Yanzhen has been a loving mother for a few years there.
"when a mother loves her child." Before the experience of loving mother, she has always worried about these abandoned children.
the 5 year old Fu'an column is a child with congenital ignorance. Now mental health has recovered well. There is a normal emotional expression like love, pain, jealousy, spoiled, and so on.
Liu Yanzhen said that the Fu'an column is a "living treasure" in the family. Although its language expression ability is deficient, it is very enthusiastic to people. As long as the guests came home, he dragged the guests to the sofa and patted the sofa with their hands. "This year's children's day, leaders come home to see their children. It is the seat that our family pillar arranges to the leader. Liu Yanzhen said with a smile.
for Mr and Mrs Liu Yanzhen, it is not easy to be a good parent to the four children. Every day, two couples give their children "growth records". Children are fat, tall, and in a mood. They should be recorded.
a detailed schedule of
let four children realize the life of a normal family, which is not an easy thing for Liu Yanzhen. When she first brought the four children home, she first wrote a life schedule.
6:30 every day, ask the children to get up, prepare breakfast, and send Zhang Jisheng to school. Three other children will be sent to rehabilitate at 8:45. "After sending the children, we must hurry to pick up the house and wash our clothes every day." She had to pick up her family before 10:30 and pick up three younger children.
Liu Yanzhen said that these children had 5 meals a day, two in the morning and 1 in the evening. After eating prematurely, she sent the children to the rehabilitation center, and then she was busy cleaning, washing clothes, preparing lunch, and waiting for the children to pick up more than 11.
in the lunch hour column, she also noted: make some noodles for fuchchi. "He is the youngest, and his physical development is not very good. He has to take special care of it." Liu Yanzhen said, since three children of small age are not able to take care of themselves, they have to bathe them after their size and stool. At 7:30 every night, they begin to take turns to bathe the children and coax them to sleep. At night, every two or three hours, we should get up to check the sleeping of children.
after dinner at about 6 p.m., Liu Yanzhen and her husband still take their children for a walk in the yard. Take them to know the flowers and bug fish in the yard one by one.
in addition to taking care of the children's daily life, she has to work hard to create a family atmosphere. "Let the children feel that although it is living in welfare homes, this house is the real home."