reporter: Liu Xin
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come out of Cao Xiuying's home, and I can't help thinking of a few movies that have similar circumstances to the situation in Germany.
Agam in Agam, Mike in the weakness, and Dafu in "ocean paradise", they are all flawed people. In the film, they all get good care of the good and have a happy ending. In my opinion, Cao Xiuying in reality is greater than any father or mother in the movie, and Germany is more sympathetic than any protagonist in the movie. After all, the reality is not a movie, Cao Xiuying's 56 years are not the one or two hours of the film can be said to finish, her bitterness, her hard work, more than I can use to express the scope of words.
this is a very special interview experience. Because older, Cao Xiuying very deaf, I say a few words, she still did not respond, just know, she did not understand mandarin. So I have to change my hometown, my hometown is not far from Anqiu, I said the old people can understand the home dialect, so after a few words, the elderly expression has gradually spread. The whole interview was done on the Kang of the house. Less than ten square meters of hut, except for a Kang, a cabinet and a TV, two people were standing very crowded at the same time, and after the camera was put on the foot, I sat on the Kang. When I spoke, I shouted to the ears of the old man. When I chatted with the old man, he stared at us from time to time. His eyes were straight, but he could not read any meaning. In the interview with
, the sudden crying of the old man made me a little unprepared, and then I could understand it very well. The old man Cao Xiuying was very, very bitter in his life. From 19 to 84, she suffered physical and psychological pain and suffering. She also needed a channel to vent. Before we arrived, no one had passed her. No one asked her to recollection a little bit after the home, when some of the past events were slowly coming out with our interviews. The old man cried, but I tried to persuade her, but it was useless. I really felt sad when I saw the old man's tears. I took out a tissue to wipe the tears for the old man and said to her, "aunt, don't you have leg pain? I'll knead it for you. " Just pinched two times, the old man's cry was small. She straightened up and dried her tears. She sighed and said, "these years, the wood (no) someone hurts, it can be punished." Yes, over the years, she has been taking care of others, and no one has ever felt bad about her. She is a mother who pays completely but does not ask for anything in return.
84 years old and widow old and widowed old man, many have been in the nursing home, but Cao Xiuying does not go, she does not have to give her virtue to go, she should keep to the side of Germany. For so many years, the mother and the mother are accompanying each other. Even if the days are sad, they will depend on each other. Mother love is selfless and selfish. As long as their children are good, any price is willing to pay, and to pay everything, but also for their children.
in Agam's story, Agam's mother said to him from an early age, "you are no different from anyone else." In the eyes of Cao Xiufang, is virtue not? Over the years, she has suffered from pain or pain, how to love or how to love her. No matter whether she calls her or not, he is her child.
movies are endings, but the story of Cao Xiufang and de has not yet come to an end. Maybe their stories will change in the future because of this mother's day's participation. I'm looking forward to it.
