Difficulties in the "poor help poor" two four fetal mothers to help each other
Shandong commercial newspaper
there is a family of four births outside 10 kilometers, and Liu Guiqin initiative "relatives"
Liu Guiqin (behind the left) and Li Honghui (behind the right) two mothers, because of the same birth of the four twins in Liu Guiqin's mobile phone book, there is a telephone number named "four tyres", the owner of this code, is another four cells outside 10 kilometers outside. The mother of the baby boy - Li Honghui. In Li Honghui's mobile address book, there is only one word on the number of Liu Guiqin, "sister". A 41 year old, a 29 year old, a four child is already 5 years old, a four child is just 2 years old, a family living in the outskirts of Linyi, a dwelling outside the city. Two women who had never met were sisters because of the same four tire experience. Liu Guiqin, who was the first to find Li Honghui, though she was not well-off, felt that she had the obligation to help her sister. Liang Geng / reporter / reporter Liang Geng / reporter Liu Chang
[marriage] the joy and sorrow of the four twins let her take the initiative to "marry"
first see, Li Honghui is a little shy, called a "sister". Liu Guiqin answered and laughed.
at two o'clock in the afternoon of September 25th, when Liu Guiqin came to Li Honghui's house, the second of the latter was running and running with the buttocks. Liu Guiqin frowned and the tone of his voice was full of blame. "What do you do?"
Li Honghui complained: "just now a few of the other students were naked, so he learned not to wear trousers, but he didn't have time to wear them."
the number of Liu Guiqin's visits to Li Honghui's family can be counted clearly, but this does not affect the kind of familiarity between them. Because all the time is placed on the children, the communication between the two of them is almost entirely on the phone.
there are children's clothes and toys that are not used by the family. Liu Guiqin will call on one phone: "sister, please go to my aunt's to get something."
the intersection of two people's lives is somewhat accidental.
one day in late August 2012, Liu Guiqin sold clothes on the street, and the neighbor booth suddenly said, "there are four births in our village." As soon as Liu Guiqin inquired, the four child family lived in yangcadun village, about 10 kilometers away from the town of sesame dun. Liu Guiqin's sister-in-law was in this village. She asked her aunt to ask each other's questions and decided to go and see it.
in August 24th of that year, when Li Honghui was full of children, Liu Guiqin appeared in Li Honghui's home under the bridal line of his aunt. Li Honghui was a little shy and called a "sister". Liu Guiqin answered and laughed. She brought two sets of new clothes to Li Honghui's children. She was ready to help her sister.
Liu Guiqin is not very educated. The cell phone numbers of other people are very simple and easy to identify. She will save Li Hong for "four babies". Li Honghui didn't have much experience in learning, so he wrote Liu Guiqin directly in his cell phone.
[resonance] hair dye, only to cover the endless number of white hair
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she dyed yellow hair, she dyed red hair, two women reason to agree, "not hair dyed, how can cover white hair?"
Liu Guiqin was tall, square face, horse tail, big eyes glint with shrewd and yellow hair; Li Honghui was short, round face, short hair, a little shy and a red hair.
two people were sitting on a small stool. When they heard the reporters asking them for their hair dye, Liu Guiqin pulled his hair with his hand and pulled it out. "You see, it's all white hair." Li Honghui also studied Liu Guiqin's appearance and showed his white hair. "How can it be hidden without hair coloring?"
then is a short silence. Since the birth of the four birth boy, the lives of two women have changed dramatically, and the joys and sorrows among them are "hard to understand by others."
after having four births, Liu Guiqin's girlfriends gradually lost contact. "I get up at six every day to take care of my children, and then go out to earn money. How can I do anything else?" Liu Guiqin told this reporter that "in the past two years, few friends have called me." Li Honghui has not been in the city for a year, and rarely goes to the village and neighbouring village friends. The living area is narrowed to his own door. "It is not convenient to take four children." "She is the one who knows what my heart is like." Li Honghui's eyes were a little wet. He looked at Liu Guiqin, and the two men were silent again.
because of this reporter's arrival, two mothers have the opportunity to meet this meeting, the two chat topics can not be separated from the children - "my family is always naughty, bites", "all the same, a few children have a long time, it is urgent to bite", "this must be played, it is not to use..."
day was tied to children on weekdays, and there was little time to get on the phone, but the two women made a chord and warm in a close contact.
Liu Guiqin has something to help his sister, make a phone call, make a clear account of the words; when Li Honghui's child is at a loss when he is ill, he will also call her sister without thinking.
[Vision] the expectation of a child is not to be as uncivilized as
Liu Guiqin thinks that, in any way, he has the responsibility to help Li Honghui.
Liu Guiqin was born in 1973, and Li Honghui was born in 1973. She was born in 1985. She was a sister and had more social experience; Liu Guiqin lived in the suburbs, and Li Honghui lived in a village. Her family conditions were relatively good; Liu Guiqin's four births were born without a incubator, and Li Honghui's children were prematurely born, and now young, Liu Guiqin experience can be To help her; more importantly, Liu Guiqin cherishes the fate of both sides.
in September 25th this year, Liu Guiqin came to Li Hong's home with four children, four 5 - year-old boys, four other 2 - year - old brothers, eight children playing in a small yard, like a kindergarten. "Your children are so big. Don't drink milk powder." Liu Guiqin was "educated" by Li Honghui. "My family will not drink for more than 6 months." In a moment, Liu Guiqin's tone was calm. "Your child is young and easy to grow ill."
Li Honghui's living room wall hangs a picture of four children at the age of one week - four children's uniform goose yellow clothes, which is sent by Liu Guiqin. Some clothes and toys from Li Honghui's family were delivered by Liu Guiqin.
her husband's 2000 yuan per month in an outside construction site is the economic pillar of Li Honghui's family, and their home is more difficult than Liu Guiqin's home.
for future vision, Li Honghui says that he can give too little to children, just hope that children don't have culture as they are. "I want the children to be healthy, and I can get a good education and get a good rest, not like me." "I hope I can earn more money, give the children a better condition, and the children's wishes can be satisfied as much as possible." At this point, Liu Guiqin's idea is consistent with Li Honghui, "want to let the child be more educated, do not like us, in the future can go to school, can not, let the child go to the army."
will the children of the two families continue to associate with each other like these two mothers in the future?
Liu Guiqin and Li Honghui continue to agree on this point: "we must go on."