the Ji'nan Daily reporter Wang Baojing correspondent Yu Hui Wang Zheqing Li Wenwen
from the original unseen to the mother-in-law's later years of reliance, Cui Tian Ling is determined to be firm And perseverance, taking care of the mother-in-law who could not take care of herself for a few years, and let her enjoy her old age -
an unseen home son-in-law, but later became the mother-in-law's dependence on her old age. A look of the old man, a cough, a gesture, he understood. The villagers who moved countless villagers were Cui Tianling, a 64 year old villager in the big sun village of rose County, Pingyin.
a few years ago, when the reporter walked into Cui Tianling's home, a couple of neighbour's sister-in-law pointed to the crisscross clothesline in the yard, "when his mother was ill, he wanted to use a lot of felt cloth. They can't afford it, it's all he picked up. " "No matter in winter or summer, I have to pick up the cloth at the bottom of the newly built ditches, take it back and wash the cement paste and dry it into a felt cloth." Perennial immersion in cold water makes Cui Tian Ling's fingers become shaped, and the joints are prominent and can not be telescoped as ordinary people do. He began to talk slowly about the past few years.
bumpy ups and downs - heavy strikes followed by
Cui Tian Ling has worked as a Mason and Mason in the local area. When he was 10 years old, his mother died, and at the age of 27 he went to Sun Zhuang village to be a son-in-law. Wife Sun Qiuyun is gentle, intelligent and capable, and is a good hand both at home and outside. At that time, Cui Tianling went to work in addition to going to work, but sometimes he still had to be hurt by his mother-in-law.
in 1997, his wife died of an emergency, and her father-in-law died because she could not stand the death of a woman. Cui Tianling became the only pillar of the family. In order to take care of this family, he gave up the identity of the contract worker of the local farm implements factory, and helped his daughter to become a family member by relying on her own masonry skills.
finally, the bitter days will be over, and the mother-in-law's body is in trouble again. In June 2007, Jiao Yuying, a mother in law, suddenly fell down due to "electrolyte disturbance", and his legs and legs remained unmoving after discharge. I did not expect that two years later, his mother-in-law's body was getting worse and worse. Not only did his hands and feet became more and more unheard, but the speech was gradually obscure, and the situation of incontinence appeared.
serving the elderly - the same as professional nursing staff
"it's not easy for the mother to raise my two children." She is in trouble now, and I have to serve her with all my heart! "Cui Tian Ling has become the mother-in-law of her mother-in-law with this firmness and persistence. In order to let the old man sleep well, he no longer went out to work, even if he went to work in the fields, he would hurry home soon. Whenever the weather is fine, he will take his mother-in-law out in the sun. The 83 year old mother-in-law, like a baby, depends entirely on her former son-in-law, who is not optimistic.
"now Cui Tian Ling to take care of the elderly, like a professional caregiver!" according to a neighbor Sun Xiuling, Cui Tianling also invented a stool chair to make it easier for the old man to live - he made a tripod with a scrap of steel and cut a few small holes in a small tire. After that, he made a few small holes in a small tire. Set on the three legs, put a small bucket on the bottom, making a simple toilet for the elderly to feel more comfortable.
moving to the neighbour - the thoughtful of the mother-in-law is better than the dear son
"the considerate of the old man by Tian Ling, and the parents may not be able to do it," said neighbor Zhang Mingchun. Cui Tianling's mother-in-law likes to eat jujube and bananas. For this he slowly figured out the way to use liquor to wash the red jujube in the canned bottle. Because of the fear of the cold in winter, the old man ate the belly, Cui Tianling tied the rope to the banana pedicle and put it in the warm bottle. So he took care of the old man day after day, so that his old mother-in-law who could not take care of himself could enjoy the day.
to this, the leader of Dasun village, rose Town, said, "he has won her mother-in-law more than his son, and the villagers have no boast! It's not easy and often help. I hope that people in society can help this family. "