for decades to take care of two mentally retarded sons alone, she said she was happy now. Nandu reporter Ye Zhiwen
original title: "I gave birth to him, he is my boy"
94 year old Mai Rong Huan to take care of the two mentally retarded son over half a century, she said just the mother's original
Mai Rong, 94 years old. The mother born in 1918, after the pain of war, bereavement and bereavement, still took care of the two sons of innate mental retardation for more than half a century. In 2010, she was appraised by Zhongshan as "the ten greatest women in Zhongshan". This year, she was also selected as a "Zhongshan man".
two children can basically take care of themselves, and their future life is no longer worried. Mai Rong Huan talked about mentally retarded son
did not think how long he could live, just wanted to live well every day. Mai Rong Huan, now
is really great. To change me, I sent two sons to the nursing home. Neighbors talked about Mai Rong Huan
the quiet life of three elderly people
after autumn, the time of dark became earlier. In September 27th, it was not yet 6 o'clock in the evening, and the sky in the West Village of Dongfeng Town in Zhongshan was dark. At the age of 94, Mai Rong Huan, like usual, walked to the doorway with vegetable basket. Though she had some rickets, she walked steadily.
vegetables in the vegetable fields grow just right. Mai Rong Huan leaned down and picked up the vegetables and took them close to the eyes, and removed the yellow leaves and the roots with the soil. The old man said that the food he used to eat at home was planted by himself, but his health was poor these years, and the good neighbors began to help.
when the old man was busy, his 72 year old son, his eldest son, bent his body and started his back, and was taking her mother's 10 yuan to walk to the village market. Although his feet moved very fast, he moved at a very slow pace, and the average man could finish the journey in 10 minutes. He spent more than 40 minutes. It turned out that a few years ago, his calf was hit by a car.
after he was discharged from the hospital, he was still busy. He went out shopping as usual, but he went home on time and at noon. In the eyes of his mother, he was very smart, but he was lazy and a little wild.
in the market, he went straight to a burning smell, without any language exchange. The familiar file owner cut a small bag of goose to him and received 5 yuan. "Every time is like this, do not know how much to buy." The owner said.
more than 6 in the evening, when he returned home, the 68 year old brother, Ah Fu, had washed the vegetables, and Zheng Anan sat quietly beside his mother. Every time a reporter looked at him, he would have a pure smile. Compared with his brother, Ah Fu is more like an otaku. He doesn't love to go out, do laundry, cook meals, clean the house, and does almost every household chores.
it's already dark. At the mother's greeting, Ah Fu turned on the lights and the house lit up. Amin listened to his mother's arrangement, ignited many sticks of incense, and inserted them in many positions, such as spiritual position, throne and so on. Soon, the fire was also born. Before the bright fire of the hall, Ah Fu boiled water and put oil.
roast goose, green vegetables plus rice cooked before, this is a family of three dinner. After dinner, Ah Fu, as usual, made a cup of tea for her mother. In
30, the church son lived and took care of
it seemed that the life of the three family of Mai Rong Huan was quiet and normal. But in fact, both aman and arfu are mentally retarded. Their intelligence level is only equivalent to that of a few years old children. The two brothers took care of their children and took care of their mothers. It took 30 years for Mai Rong Huan to take care of themselves.
back to 72 years ago, this year, Mai Rong Huan was 20 years old. Under the control of her aunt, she came from the neighbouring village to the West Village and married her husband, who was 17 years older than her. After two years of marriage, the elder son aman was born. But as the child grew older, the couple found "something wrong." ah man never talked. He only learned to walk when he was 5 years old. Later, it was only known that he was a congenital mentally retarded. Mai Rong Huan said she thought the later born Ah Fu would be normal, but I did not expect it to be mentally retarded.
two sons are mentally retarded, and Mai Rong said he could not accept it at first, especially when other children called the two son "silly boy", "will be angry, and then slowly accept it." Because of their mental retardation, the two brothers have not been to school, and can only play at home. To this end, the couple deliberately raised the fence around the hospital.
when two children are naughty and disobedient, they want to go out and play. When he was angry, Mai Rong Huan said he wanted to scold a few of them, but he thought of it again. "I scold them, they do not know, but they also feel heartache." So far, two children have come to old age. Mai Rong Huan has never scolded them for decades.
the two brothers have grown up, but they still need adults to take care of them. But in 1982, the husband left the world. After the husband left, 64 year old Mai Rong Huan worried that he would leave one day, so she decided to teach the two brothers to cook.
does not seem to be interested in cooking, but Ah Fu is very willing to learn, but for a long time, he still can't get the point. "The stir fry is a lot of salt; the cooking is not less water or cooked..." Mai Rong Huan said that she sometimes felt frustrated and felt stupid, but watched him seriously learning and could not bear to blame. Later, Ah Fu made some simple dishes. Later, he learned to do laundry and sweep the floor.
the mentally retarded son learned to take care of mother
although it was 94 years old, but his body still looks hard, listening, and memory are good, but the vision is not as good as before, the previous period also because of osteoporosis lived in the hospital. More than a month after her mother was in hospital, the two brothers could only stay at home. To the old man, the two children were able to take care of themselves, and many good people came to help.
, however, the brothers still have a lot of places to take care of their mothers. Sewing buttons and clipping nails is not difficult, but two people can't do it. They can only rely on their mother's help. Now, Mai Rong Huan is still the backbone of the family and arranges a family's life.
two sons slowly learned to take care of their mothers. In addition to taking up most of the housework, Ah Fu often massages her mother, makes tea for her every day, and washes her bath; and she likes to go shopping, "ask" her mother every time he goes out. Although Mai Rong Huan most of the time, he could not understand his two sons, but when he looked at the movement of the man, he knew he was going out again.
Mai Rong Huan said that she had been worried about her two sons' life for a long time, but "I am not worried now." The two children, she said, were basically able to take care of themselves; the local government had helped to revise the old house for some time, and a lot of good people often come to visit it, and now there are social security pensions and subsistence subsidies, plus thousands of yuan a month.
it is understood that in recent years, Dongfeng Town in Zhongshan has insisted on the appropriated funds allocated from the finance to improve the quality of life of the difficult groups in the town, to set up a file for the difficult people of the household registration, and to handle all social security, medical insurance and all kinds of subsidies. Take Mai Rong Huan as an example, the monthly social security pensions and living allowances of 3 people amount to more than 4600 yuan. At the same time, the town also arranges regular visits to health care workers and social workers.
the old man took care of the story of the two mentally retarded son. After the media reports, the great mother was paid a tribute to the great mother in various ways. However, the old man thought that what she had done was just a mother's duty. "I gave birth to him and he was my son."
postscript "just want to be good every day"
Mai Rong said now is very happy, can be taken care of by the son is enjoying
94, Mai Rong was suffering from the pain of losing his parents, and after marriage, they had to have two mentally retarded children; at 64, her husband died; a few years ago, filial daughter first went to her.
remembering the rest of his life, Mai Rong Huan said that he really had a hard time. But she said she felt very happy now. Now, the old man's life is simple and regular. He gets up at dawn and sleeps on wooden couches at noon. He also watches TV in the evening. And three meals a day, basically done by the rich. The old man said that it was a good thing to be taken care of by a son.
Mai Rong loves to laugh and is very talkative. In recent years, a reporter has come to her home. Every time, she will talk for a long time. Asked her not tired, she said that she was not tired at all, because some people came to chat with her and they would feel very happy. In the eyes of her neighbors, the good maiyun Huan is a respectable old man. "She is really not easy. She is more than 90 years old, and she has to take care of two sons." Ye surnamed neighbor said, "it's really too big to replace me. I sent two sons to the nursing home."
the old man said he was very happy now and didn't think about how long he could live. He just wanted to live well every day.
co ordinate: Wang Wenjie, a journalist from Nandu