Love story for a 71 year old man: love is actually a simple chat with a companion.
http://news.e23.cn/content/2012-06-06/2012060600370.html
urban women's newspaper Author: Liao Liang
Gao Hongkuan, a 71 year old man, does not abandon the story of taking care of the vegetative wife for 12 years. It has attracted the attention of the citizens and touched the love chord in the heart of the public. In the context of the rising divorce rate, what is love? Yesterday, Gao hung wide about his "old thoughts" and "non - mainstream" love views.
[b] love is a good way to keep her [/b]
Gao Hongkuan's family has four films, he and his wife only one picture, two people sitting in the tea table. Gao Hongkuan only remembered that they were filmed by their son-in-law during the lunar new year. "She is a rural woman. She has no culture, nor does she mention this. Our love at that time was to take good care of the elderly and take care of the family. Gao Hongkuan said, what love is, he only realized after his wife fell ill. Before the family's affairs were all done by his wife, Gao Hong had not even cooked a meal. When his wife fell ill and all the housework was pressed on Gao Hongkuan, he found that his wife was so tired that he had not been able to take care of the family for so many years. "The love that I put on TV now is not true to me. My understanding of love is an old idea, but I can't keep up with the young people. " Gao Hongkuan said that love is to lead a good life. Even if the wife is ill now, she can not speak or move, but also keep her. The wife is home.
[b] spends about 200000 seeing a doctor never regrets [/b]
"I have never heard of being paralyzed in bed, and can't eat or move for more than ten years." This is the one who knows most about Gao Hongkuan's family affairs.
Gao Hongkuan is also proud that his wife has not had bedsore for more than 10 years. It's easier said than done. Every one or two hours, Gao Hongkuan would turn over his wife and feel whether she had peed, especially in the winter, and had to get up four or five times a night.
Sun Shuzhen has been confined to bed for 10 years because of brain stem hemorrhage and will be repeated every few years. In recent years, Gao Hongkuan has been frightened by his wife's illness, for fear that his wife will not be able to support it.
over the past 10 years, Sun Shuzhen's various brain CT films have been filled with a bed. In the absence of rural medical insurance, the hospital had to spend a few million yuan each time in hospital. The rough statistics had spent about 200000 yuan, and he never regretted spending the money for a month with only 1000 yuan. "If she is ill, she should see her. If she is alive, as long as she is still breathing, I will feel steadfast in heart, and it will not be able to exchange any more money." [b] is mellow and sweet, which moves the Jinan [/b]
"this is called love, which has evolved into responsibility after years. Gao Hongkuan is a real man." After seeing the report, Ms. Zhao, who was 40 years old in the office, said in micro-blog that love was baptized by marriage and became a heavy responsibility. Gao Hongkuan showed the responsibility of love with his experience. Unfortunately, many people can not afford this responsibility, and the family does not exist. "By contrast, the love that we often talk about after 80 and 90 is overshadowed by Gao Hongkuan." In the junior high school of the University of Chi - Ji, she recently had just talked about love, but soon broke up. Compared to Gao Hongkuan, the love and love of this kind of love was lack of love and tolerance. "She is in, to be a complete home, the words of our old people in the heart of the young people can not move on the divorce, only to the old, only to understand that the old company, this home exists." Ms. Liu, more than 70, is similar to Gao Hongkuan. She telephoned the metropolis newspaper yesterday that her husband was in bed for four or five years. Although she had been working hard, her husband was his own. As long as her husband was still breathing, it proved that the family was still in existence.
[b] reporter to remember [/b]
[b] their love let us feel like [/b]
watching TV series recently, too many joys and joys, naked marriage, living, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to each other, mother-in-law does not look at the son-in-law... All this makes people no longer believe in love. What is love in the end, Gao Fu Shuai collocation white rich beauty, then the fierce and fierce, life and death?
71 years old Gao Hongkuan, a simple village cadre, with 12 years of perseverance, take care of the wife of the plant. Only because she can be a complete family. The simple and mellow love makes us young ashamed.
what is love? In Gao Hongkuan's opinion, love is a good life. Love is a young couple. As long as his wife is alive, even if he can catch his breath, he feels steadfast and feels that this family still exists.
this love, let the young people ashamed, we give love too much additional things, the love hanging in the mouth, but can not hold the temptation of the world of flowers, package second milk, small three, blue face... It has become the fatal injury of love, not even in the end, where can I pray "the most romantic thing is to grow old with you"?
a 71 year old man has given us a lesson: love, gorgeous and shock are a flash in the pan, can really hold a long, ordinary and flat heart operation. And experience.