Henan's 79 year old husband takes care of his paralyzed wife for 43 years.
source: Dahe Network - Henan business daily
Wang Wanzong said that as long as he had a breath, he would always take care of his wife. Henan commercial newspaper reporter Wang Di /
[b]1969 was paralyzed after his wife produced his son. From then on, he began taking care of his wife without complaining about [/b]
[b]. His 79 year old waist was almost 90 degrees, and his wife seemed unable to take care of [/b]
[b], but he said, as long as there was a breath, he would not ignore his wife [/b]
Henan Commercial Daily reporter Sun Yirui
43 years ago, a serious illness made his wife bedridden. Wang Wanzong said nothing but silently took up the heavy responsibility of caring for his sick wife. Now Wang Wanzong is 79 years old, with his waist almost bent to 90 degrees, but he said he would never mind his wife if he had one breath. Looking back on the experience of taking care of his wife in the past 43 years, Wang Wanzong smiled lightly and said, "there must be some trouble. But she is the one in her family. It's my duty to take care of her.
[b] on crutches, bent on the waist [/b]
[b], he pushes his wife to the toilet at 10 a.m. on [/b]
26, at the home of Wang Wanzong old man in Henan spinning machine community near the intersection of Huashan road and construction West Road. The left hand holds a cane in his left hand, his right hand holds a chair, and slowly comes to the wife in a wheelchair. "Do you want to get rid of it?" The wife "Oh", he pushed his wheelchair toward the bathroom direction slowly.
the living room is about 3 meters away from the bathroom. Wang Wanzong pushed his wife for nearly 3 minutes. From beginning to end, his waist never straightened up.
Wang Wanzong has a very good spirit. When he speaks, his face smiles. He said, now, the conditions are good, 20 years ago, no wheelchair, or the use of public toilet, if the wife wants to go to the toilet, he needs to hold her waist from behind, let her legs move a little forward, to go back and forth for a few minutes.
after the stroke at the end of last year, his wife's spirit was not as good as before, and he could not speak clearly. Sometimes he needed to go to the toilet but he didn't call people. He often wet the bed. So, every few minutes, Wang Wanzong would ask her if she wanted to go to the bathroom.
[b] "it's my duty to take care of her. There is nothing to complain about." [/b]
at that time, Wang Wanzong needed to work, and there was only 1.5 hours of rest at noon. In order to ensure that he is not late and can take care of his wife, he gets up more than five points every day to help his wife wear clothes, wash and rinse, buy food and cook, and feed his wife at one mouth, and then he hastily eats a few mouths to go to work. Before you leave, steam the rice you want to eat at noon. During work, he also needs to go home to help his wife to go to the toilet. Sometimes he has to run back two times in the morning.
he said his wife could not live without him. He spent 19 years in retirement, except for buying vegetables and being ill in hospital.
when he asked if his wife was dragging himself, he shook his head with a smile and said, "for a few decades, it will be annoying and sure, but she is my own family. It's my duty to take care of her, so there's nothing to complain about."
[b] father to take care of mother [/b]
[b] has not been able to [/b]
two old son Wang Yong, the only son of the old, the father, the eyes are red, do not stop saying, "my father is not easy."
Wang Yong said he was unmarried and often had to travel. In recent years, his mother was basically waiting by his father. Due to years of hard work, father's waist began to bend without retirement, and later he could not walk without holding something. Also once went to the hospital to check, the doctor said is ankylosing spondylitis, but to take care of the mother, father did not agree to hospitalization.
in March last year, Wang Wanzong accidentally fell down and had a fracture of the femoral head. In the meantime, the son was looking for a babysitter to wait on his mother, but he was afraid that the stranger would not care for his wife. After a while, he gave up the nurse and served him with injury.
now, Wang Wanzong's body is not as good as day after day, and he seems to have some difficulty in waiting for his wife. In desperation, Wang Yong quit his original job and stayed at home to take care of his parents. But Wang Wanzong said, "if you don't go to work, you'll have to go out to work two days later."
when the reporter asked him whether a person could take care of his wife, Wang Wanzong was silent.