Learn to be an old man
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some people say: it is easy to do the old man. It is enough to have the black hair dyed white hair in the years. It is not so simple to be an old man, not only to have a loving heart and a broad mind. It is also necessary to master a certain amount of art. It makes a lot of sense. How to deal with the relationship between good family members, especially when the children get married and have children, how to get along well with their juniors?
Aunt Li, more than 60 years old, has an only daughter. She is very coy from childhood, and basically does not do housework. Last year, after her daughter married and gave birth to her daughter, because her daughter's mother's family was in the field, there was no help to take care of her children. Aunt Li had a pain in her daughter's heart. She offered to let her daughter live with her and take care of her granddaughter. But Aunt Li did not think that the girl was still as dependent on her parents as it was. It was the dinner, the clothes came to the hand, and the meal was only to play with the children, and even the bowl was not washed. Aunt Li took care of the little ones and waited for them. They were tired and aching all day. They also felt sad for their daughter. Aunt Li decided to change the strategy and let her daughter get back to their own small home. She arrived at her daughter's home to take care of her granddaughter every morning. At night, her daughter was from work and she went home from work. At the weekend, the child had her daughter, and Aunt Li busy her own affairs. Unexpectedly, the daughter son-in-law had a sense of responsibility, and the housework, such as cooking and washing dishes, took the initiative to do it. She took care of the children. Aunt Li said that to make her daughter feel that her parents are not easy, she can be filial. In my parents' house, it is natural to be dependent on ideas and change the environment. I go to her little house to see the children, so that I have the feeling of being a guest, the daughter also has a sense of responsibility for the home, and I have experienced the hard work of my previous, and now we get along well.
as the saying goes, "love is easy to get along with." Aunt Lee cleverly handled family problems, freed herself, and educated her children. This is advisable. Old people need art to get along with their children, and old people need wisdom to deal with their problems with their children. When dealing with family contradictions, the elderly should highlight the demeanor of the elders, not only to let their children feel the care and selflessness of their parents, but also to make their children considerate to the old and the difficult. Under the eaves, the same family is a family, with a continuous relationship of blood, no matter what happens, so long as people understand each other, care for each other, change their thinking and understand each other, so that the misunderstanding and unhappiness can be eliminated, so that the young and the young can get along well and enjoy the harmony.
it seems easy to be an old man. First of all, we should be wise and open-minded and treat children who have already become families by reason. Secondly, we should talk more about dedication and treat children with understanding. Thirdly, we should understand children and look at their lives in a detached manner. In family life, children should naturally respect their elders and respect their elders, and treat their elders with filial piety. Only in this way can family harmony lead to happiness and happiness.