Ji'nan times
"life is endless, guarding not only." This is Fang Zean's commitment to his wife. At the age of 62, he spent 1/3 of his life taking care of Wang Jinfeng, the old man who could not take care of himself.
30, Fang Zean sang with his wife. Reporter Liu Yule took
20 years ago Wang Jinfeng's sudden cerebral haemorrhage became a vegetative person, eating and drinking lazara all by the house Zan an to take care of. Because his wife liked singing, Fang Zean sang to her every day. 8 years ago, Wang Jinfeng was really awakened by her husband's voice. Now, her right half body can not move, nor can she speak, but she can sing quietly with her husband and secretly do housework.
husband singing woman and
singing is a way of communication. Singing has been floating for 20 years
"Honghu water, waves, waves and waves..." On the afternoon of 30, Fang sat on the bed of his bedroom, and sang the song with his wife in four wheelchair.
Room Tsung an sang and beat the beat. Wang Jinfeng looked up on the back of the wheelchair and looked at her husband as hard as he could. Her head was lighter with rhythm, and there was harmony from time to time. The sound is not big, but it is very clear. Qu Bi tried to communicate with Wang Jinfeng. Her facial features were shrunk into a ball. Fang Zean said that his partner now has obstacles to speak, and can only understand a simple dialogue. "Usually, I go to work. She can only watch TV at home and watch TV programs such as singing and kicking the ball. The variety show she can't understand."
talking about his wife, Fang Zean, who was not good at words, opened his speech. 37 years ago, they met each other for food work and came together for their love of singing. "Don't look at her now. It's nice to sing before." After Fang Zean said, he found a piece of audio from his cell phone. It was the beautiful song of Wang Jinfeng when he was young. "It was recorded at that time. In the last few years, my son didn't know how to get to the U plate and then to my cell phone."
in fact, such a song has been floating for 20 years in the house of Fang Ze.
disaster comes from the sky
diapers pile up like a mountain by "beating" rice soup to survive
clockwise back to 20 years ago. In the winter of 1998, Wang Jinfeng, 42 years old, was rushed to hospital for cerebral hemorrhage. "The doctor told me at the door of the operation room that the rescue was also an estimated plant, and asked me to save it?" Fang Zean did not hesitate, "save, if it can be saved, the vegetable I want." Wang Jinfeng lost his consciousness.
at that time he was a middle-level cadre in an enterprise. After his wife's accident, he did not work again. "She didn't realize that I locked her home when I went to work, thinking about it. On the way home, I could not smell the burnt smell. I was afraid I forgot to turn off the gas when I left. And then it's like the magic. "
back home, Fang Zean is even more relaxed. Wang Jinfeng was incontinent. He went home to change his sheets and wipe his body for his wife. "Then I cut the diaper. How much I can't remember, the only impression is that diapers are stacked on the bed like a mountain. Wang Jinfeng's meal is also a big problem. The doctor inserted a stomach tube from her nose. He cooked rice soup every day. He used a syringe to feed his wife in the tube. "She didn't digest well. She was afraid of her suffering, and a meal came down for an hour."
in order to take care of his wife, Fang Chai an quit his job and switched to a free business.
miracles happen
the song "awakens" the life of the old companion can "half take care"
in order to help his wife to recover, she insisted on taking her to do a massage, and sat on the bed and sang the songs she liked to listen to repeatedly. "The most of the singing is the theme song of the Red Mansion," "the theme" the frown eyebrow "."
the miracle happened. In the winter of 2001, it was snowing outside the house. "The more I sing, the worse I feel, and I shed tears. But there is another crying in my house." First, he looked at him with a voice. He found his wife crying with his eyes open. "I was so happy at the time. I thought I had some hope at last." Since then, Fang Zean has been insisting on singing everyday for his wife, and she is developing in a good direction. Now, in addition to being able to sing, his wife has been able to "take care of himself".
Fang Zean said that his wife had been unable to move, and her neighbor would occasionally come home to help clean up. Six months ago, the family suddenly cleaned up. "Sometimes I was anxious to go to work. The bowl was not brushed in the kitchen, and the bowls were painted after work." Fang Zean always thought it was a bowl that the neighbor helped to brush. But last week, Fang Zean smashed his wife's secret. "I came home at noon that day, but I couldn't find her in the room. I heard the splash of water in the kitchen and opened the door to see that she was washing the bowl with her left hand.
the promise of love
not more than
"do you think it's going to be getting better?" when asked about this, Fang Zean was smiling, and the tone was low: "I think it might be our best state." Fang Zean said his wife is 62 years old, and his physical function will gradually decline as he grows older. He himself has been suffering from illness for 20 years. At this point, Wang Jinfeng understood or showed a sad expression on his face. Fang Zean saw the situation and hurriedly shifted the topic. "Actually, we are very happy now."
in March this year, the old two were rated "the ten most happy families of the year".
looking at his sick wife, Fang Zean made a firm commitment to his promise. "Life is endless, and we are watching over it."
at the end of last year, as a sponsor, Fang Zean "set up" "Fang Zi an Huimin service hotline", the obligation for the community residents to provide various services, "before everyone helped me, I am now under the pressure, and also want to return people."