Qianfo Hill, Ji'nan, March three phase parent meeting, the old man on behalf of his children was photographed before writing a banners with a blind date. Zhao Xiaoshe
take part in the March three phase parent meeting in Qianfo Hill, Ji'nan. Zhao Xiaoshe
a marriage and wedding service center in Ji'nan as a marriage and Wedding Service Center for 10 years, "red Niang" marriage counselor Zhu Lin, said that more and more parents are joining the children's blind date, but the parents' parents' parents and children's success rate is low, the parents and children's aesthetic water is different, parents see the relative pair Elephants are often denied by their children. If children want to increase their pairing success rate, they still need children to show their faces. Zhu Lin said that at present, there are two reasons for the difficulty in choosing a spouse for young men and women. One is that they are excellent individuals, busy with work, and too high in vision. Two, it is difficult to find those with poor economic conditions.
Mr. Zhou, 27 years old in Linyi, also said, "the family introduced four objects, but they failed. There are some discrepancies between family members who introduce the blind date and their own ideas.
professor Ma Guanghai, a professor of sociology at the school of philosophy and social development of Shandong University, said that "Chinese style matchmaking" had come from ancient times. In ancient times, the "parents' life, the matchmaker's words", the red Niang led the line, the children were not anxious for their parents, so it is normal to appear "silver hair relatives".
when it comes to parents' anxiety about marriage, Ma Guanghai believes that the anxiety of older unmarried youths is mainly due to the pressure exerting by their parents and relatives. The concept of parents is relatively traditional, while children have certain independent consciousness. They are prone to disagree on marriage and love. As parents, they should give their children more space, not too much intervention in their lives; and children should be more considerate of their parents, face their parents' conduct, positive responses, and do not deal with them passively.