source: Shanxi evening newspaper Zhao Qin
when the weather is good, near the two community in the province Twin Towers, residents can always see a 50 A woman in her wheelchair pushed a more than 80 year old man out in a wheelchair. From time to time, the lady would stop and help the old man stand up and walk around to help her dress up. The two people talked and laughed all the way. People who do not know that they are a pair of mothers and daughters, but the old neighbors know that they are a pair of daughter-in-law!
reporter to interview, Duan Cuiping is watching her mother-in-law watching TV
her daughter-in-law named Duan Cuiping, 28 years ago married to Li's house, and has been careful to take care of her grandmother. Last year, when her grandfather died, she kept on waiting for her mother-in-law, and slept with her mother-in-law on a bed in the evening.
father-in-law is ill and she does not take care of
Duan Cuiping said that before her marriage, her father explained again and again: "mother-in-law is also a mother, like to her parents in law." 28 years from marriage to now, Duan Cuiping did not have a conversation with her in laws. In
2015, the 90 year old male was admitted to the hospital for cancer of the pylorus. The doctor could not eat after the operation. The doctor opened a mouth to him from his stomach. Every day he had to paste the food into a paste and pour it into the stomach like a transfusion. For more than seven months, Duan Cuiping could say it was an undissoluble wait and wait from the hospital from his father's hospital to the death of the world. At half past five every morning, he had to get up at half past five in the morning, to paste a variety of nutritious materials to the medical equipment, and to help the father-in-law to get up, a hand with a washbasin, and a hand to brush his teeth and wash his teeth. The old man sat unsteadily, and she leaned his body on herself. Worried that the paste was cold, my father-in-law would have diarrhea. Every time she lost a bottle, she would reheat the remaining bottles for four bottles a day. In order to prevent bedsore of a long time lying in bed, she also rubbed her body and massage with the hot towel everyday.
from the father's discharge from the hospital, Duan Cuiping and Li Yeguang moved into their parents' home and stayed there day and night. Their little family never went back to live.
2016 in the first month of the first month of twenty six, the 91 year old male left the world, the old man walked in a very quiet time, because his son Li Yeguang and daughter-in-law Duan Cuiping was accompanied by the time.
father-in-law passed away, she took care of the mother-in-law
"the mother-in-law is lucky, the brothers and sisters are very filial, only live far inconvenient, everyone has their own children to manage. I am sitting at home anyway, and doing more is no harm. I can not let them interfere with their work. Duan Cuiping said that when the old couple were in good health, they could basically take care of themselves. Later on, they took turns to take care of their children. Because it is a special kind of work, Duan Cuiping retired at the age of 45, and slowly, she took care of the elderly. After
everyone says that a daughter-in-law gets along with each other, but Duan Cuiping says it is not that complicated. "Mother-in-law is a straightforward person. If I do something wrong, she will point out to her face, and never talk about me behind my back. At home, no matter big or small, she talked with me first and sometimes she didn't talk to her son. My husband is also a filial son, my parents are also very good, my father was ill in bed for 3 months, my husband just rest at home, every day excrement urine, run before and after. If I have such a family, what else can I disapprove of?
teach her behavior to affect her daughter
3 on the afternoon of 1, the reporter saw Duan Cuiping and her mother-in-law, she was sitting at the bedside watching TV together, whispering a few words from time to time. Seeing that the mother-in-law was tired, Duan Cuiping helped her lean against the wall, and then put some thick quilts on her back. Several neighbors are at home, watching TV and chatting with them.
these years of speech, Duan Cuiping's daughter is also filial and sensible, knowing that mother took care of grandparents' hard work, and took the initiative to take care of the grandmother's responsibility, and usually live with her grandmother. Duan Cuiping's father died a few years ago, her daughter was around her mother, and Duan Cuiping was very relieved. The mother and daughter were on the phone every day to report to each other two old people.
as long as there is a chance to go out, Duan Cuiping will buy some two things for his mother, the same shoes, the same clothes and trousers. When the weather is fine, Duan Cuiping goes out with the two old people in the sun, or leads the two old people to the restaurant with their daughter.
"how is the daughter-in-law?" The reporter asked.
"the daughter-in-law and the girl are the same!" As long as we talk about this daughter-in-law, the old man always looks happy.