Re: the 90 year old wrote love letters for his serious illness: what do I do without you?
"forget to buy flowers for her, write a letter"
2 14 p.m. on 14 p. m., the old man is waiting in the two hospital of Chengdu intensive care unit. It was hard to wait until 3 p.m. of visiting time, and finally saw his wife on the bed. He took his wife's hand, but could not speak, and tears flowed down.
later, the old man remembered his daughter and told him that it was Valentine's day. "Forget to buy you flowers." He looked at his companion, and some sorry to say.
2 15, on the 15 day, the old man visited his wife second times, and this time, his son-in-law bought him two roses and sent the two flowers to his wife's bed. After more than 60 years of marriage, the love of two people is simple and ordinary. This is the first time that Tang Junwen has sent flowers to his wife.
after coming back from the hospital, the old man wanted to talk to his wife about what he had said in the past few days, and at the same time he wanted to encourage his sick wife. When he returned to the hotel, he spread out his writing paper and began to write to his wife, "forget to buy flowers for her, and write a letter."
love letter
write two draft
and print out
short more than 500 word "love letter" for the old man, and the old man has written for more than two hours. On the morning of the second morning, he asked his youngest son to get a notebook loose leaf and write another manuscript. "My father said that the first draft was not written enough."
the letter was written. It was difficult for the old man to recognize the handwriting letter. The old man asked his son to print the letter again. On the afternoon of the 16 afternoon, the old man sent his love letter to his wife. He asked the nurse to read the letter to his wife. He took his wife's hand and kept it in front of the bed. The doctors and nurses present took out their mobile phones and took a touching scene. "It's too touching, holding hands, and being together with your children."
"in normal life, we have a good feeling. This time he sent me flowers and wrote to me. I am very happy." Yesterday afternoon, Liu Xianrui mother-in-law lying on ICU bed, said.
now, after the hospital examination, Liu's mother-in-law has diabetes, hyperlipidemia, gallstones, and the symptoms of renal failure. After 5 days in ICU, "the situation is much better, the hospital has said that it can come out for a few days." The two daughter-in-law of the old man said.
love
warm details
more than 60 years ago in the ordinary every day
, by people, Tang Junwen and his wife knew and married. Speaking of the scene of the blind date, a smile appeared on the old man's face. "When we met, we were very satisfied with each other." When they got married, the two did not have a ring or a banquet, or even bought a new dress. "At that time, the family conditions were not good enough to eat."
after marriage, six children were born and grew up. Gradually, there were only two old people left in their homes. The two people's love is simple and flat, every morning, his wife will cook two eggs for him. "I asked her if she had eaten, and she said she had eaten, but she didn't eat it." The children told reporters that their mother had always been frugal, and that there would be something good for her father to eat first.
Tang Junwen also said that his life is all his wife's care. Two people live on the 2 floor. Every morning his wife will move his wheelchair down, then take him down and push him out to buy vegetables and park. "She is not allowed to walk around, afraid I'm tripped."
the old man also reads his wife's good. In 2012, Liu Popo had a car accident, an arm fracture and an intracranial hemorrhage. On the morning of the second morning, when his son came to the old man's house, he found that his father was not at home. After that, the old man took a bus on the same day, and bought 4 chickens for his wife in Chongli Town 4 kilometers away. In the children's impression, father never went to the vegetable market alone to buy vegetables.
talking about these past times, Tang Junwen old man has some remorse: "I think I am selfish and do not love you better."
Tang Junwen wrote a love letter to his wife Liu Xianrui
we were like new marriage
more than 60 loads of
dear old companion, think of you!
we have been married for more than 60 years, in these more than 60 years, we have gone through more than 60 spring and autumn, like new marriage, we are very loving, the neighborhood is envious of us, we have six filial sons and daughters, we are satisfied and happy...
alas! You suddenly sick, son sent you to Chengdu, I didn't know where you were, I looked around for you, in many hospitals in Meishan and where we usually walked to find you, it was so dark, so cold, my heart was colder, I feel like I am like an orphan at the moment, what do I do without you and me?
think, people always recall a lot when there is no hope, many, in more than 60 years, you lit me like a candle and sacrificed myself. I am tired of you, I am very guilty, more sad! I think I am very selfish, no better care of you, you have hurt the pain of a body, I now sincerely to apologize to you, deep to say to you, my wife I am sorry you!
I went to a general physical examination yesterday. The doctor said I was healthy and I was healthy. It was all your hard work for more than 60 years. I was deeply grateful to you for your selfless dedication. Thank you for eternal life.
your wife, you must be strong in your illness. You believe that the strong will of the people will overcome the disease, overcome all misfortunes and overcome all disasters. My friend, must be strong, strong! We will walk hand in hand towards the way home.
your wife is strong. You must know that nightmares wake up in the morning. It will be very bright and bright. The trees are very green and green. The water is very clear. We will still walk hand in hand in the crowd coming and going.
partner: Tang Junwen
2017