in Tian Zhong's memory, mother Duan Xiying only cried once. When he got married, his mother told him with some guilt that our family didn't even pay for the bride price, and mom felt sorry for you. "I'm sorry if there's anything there, but it's a blessing if a family is together." Today, Tian Zhong's daughter is two years old, and the most difficult day of the family is over.
"can fall asleep against the wall"
Tian Zhong, 31 years old, Xi'an 33 bus driver. Yesterday morning, I was catching up with Tian Zhong's rest. He brought reporters to his parents' home in the eastern suburb of Xi'an. This is the old family building 30 years ago, two rooms, more than 50 flat, the pattern is obsolete.
Tian Zhong's parents live on the first floor. They use bricks to build a short wall and separate a small yard. In the yard there are two iron clothes hangers nearly one meter long, which are covered with clean blankets, square, round and colorful.
in the head of the house, Xi Ying is feeding her husband Tian Chang Xu. The meal was very simple, but it was very difficult to feed.
"in 1997, the first cerebral infarction occurred in 2008, and the left half of the body was completely unable to move." It was Duan Xiying's worst day. Her factory was sluggish and she worked around, selling newspapers, doing public toilets, passing buses, and stuffing dumplings in the cafeteria.
"what do I do?" It can only be held up. " Perennial paralyzed in bed, Tian Changxuan's teeth almost dropped, and he looked after him like a nursing baby: the water at the entrance, Duan Xiying always tried a mouthful, try the temperature; the meal was a little bigger, and he choked.
Duan Xiying said, the hardest part is night. Tian Changxuan came up many times a night. He could not speak. He shouted loudly every time, beat the bed, beat the quilt, and wake Duan Xiying up.
"for so many years, I slept in clothes, I was too tired in the daytime, but I dared not sleep too much at night. He was a little bit quiet, and I woke up and took care of his stool." She shook her head and smiled bitterly. "To tell you the truth, I can fall asleep against the wall."
"although the home is not rich, but especially love"
this is not exaggerated, Tian Changxuan is nearly 1 meters height 8, help him to turn over, change diapers, put him from the bed, on the chair, wheelchair, any of the steps, are extremely hard. "Sometimes I can't hold it and carry it and carry it." Duan Xiying is 57 years old and has high blood pressure. He has to take several kinds of medicine every day. The life of both husband and wife depends entirely on her monthly pension of more than 2000 yuan.
, as the son of Tian Zhong, remembered and moved. After marriage, he moved into the new house next door. Every day when I go to work, I look at my father. "When I get home, I can call my parents. I am very happy." He said, although father can not speak, but father in this family is complete, "in this life, we will never abandon".
nearly 20 years from his father's illness, Tian Zhong has never heard a disheartened mother's words, nor has she seen his mother's temper. "My mother is a very ordinary person, but she is diligent, simple, especially hard, how to say it, my family is not rich, but especially loving, especially warm."
of course he knows that the temperament of a mother is actually strong enough. "In front of others, it will always be cheerful." At the end of the interview, the reporter proposed to take a photo of his family. Tian Zhong picked up his father from the bed and snuggled up to him. Duan Xiying, sitting on the other side, with her husband's arm and his head, smiled happily.