Xu Bao Sheng, a father journalist Zhao Shangmei, more than 30 years ago, to take care of the elderly, not long after marriage Xu Baosheng said to his wife that he would rather divorce than divide his family. Then, in more than ten years, he insisted on riding a motorcycle between Jiyang and the city, more than 20 kilometers a day, in order to be able to wait for the elderly. Now retired at home, he can not do without his father half step, and even gave up many times and his son's opportunity to travel. He said: "as long as there is a father, he will not travel far."
a few times every evening to see
11 days before his father's bed. The weather is warm. The 91 year old Xu Ming seal sits on the sofa, his legs are lifted up in front of the stool, the walnut is clenched in his left hand, and his right hand is wagging the fan in the right hand. Suddenly, he raised his right hand, and eagerly made several strokes of "picking rice in his mouth", and at the same time issued the voice of "Bao Sheng and Bao Sheng".
"the old man is going to drink water." Hearing the voice, Xu Bao Sheng hurried forward and put the cup on the table to his father's lips. Looking closely at it, Xu Ming's face is ruddy. If he excludes his walking aid, it will not be like a patient who has incontinence and incontinence for many years.
Xu Baosheng said, "every night, calls such as" Baosheng "will appear several times. Whenever this time, he immediately climbed out of bed, too late to wear clothes and ran directly to his father's bedside. "Sometimes when a father sees that he is not wearing clothes to take care of him, he will obey obediently, and he will go back to sleep with his own way."
in order to facilitate the care of the elderly, Xu Baosheng gave up moving into a new house which had been built for 7 years and always lived in the old house. "In the old house, there is only one wall between the bed and the bed of the old man, so it is easy to take care of him." Xu Baosheng said.
decades, one day, after sending away the two hundred years old mother and mother-in-law, now Xu Baosheng only wants to accompany him at his father's side. He said: "the greatest blessing now is the companionship of my father." Father constipation for more than half a year, he insisted on using his hands to help out
in the house of Xu Ming Yin, the most obvious is the large number of bags placed on the table. Xu Baosheng said, this is for the father, three times a day, like a child, see father urine.
, he said, a few years ago, because of varicose veins, his father had been pulled away from the thigh root to the ankle. It is also inconvenient for both legs to solve the problem of defecation in the house over the years.
last year, because of his father's constipation problem, Xu Bao Sheng rushed around. "Prepare lots of fruits and vegetables, drink honey, eat Chinese Medicine..." All kinds of methods have been considered, but the constipation problem of the old man is still unsolved. In the end, more than half a year, Xu Baosheng has been helping his father with his fingers.
family tradition is to take care of the elderly
35 years ago, through the matchmaker introduction, Luan Yuhong and Xu Baosheng first met. The first sentence he met was "there are 3 old people in the family who need to be looked after." What's more annoying is that shortly after his marriage, Xu Baosheng put forward the idea of taking care of the elderly and resolutely not dividing up his family.
for this reason, Luan Yu Hong, who was only 20 years old, ran home to sobbed to her mother. "I didn't say I wanted to split up. How did he say divorce?" But later, Luan Yuhong gradually came to understand that in her husband's heart, the old man will always be the first. "
" whether it was the first grandfather, or later mother, mother-in-law and father, he always looked like a treasure to protect the old man, not to be hurt by them. " Luan Yuhong said, now, under the influence of his family, he also takes care of the elderly as a top priority. Xu Baosheng said that the whole family had taken care of the elderly as their family's family tradition.