4, an unrelated old man, set up a "new family", which has been kept in the Liu Wenjuan father's house in the Dezhou plain for 6 years. In this family, Liu Wenjuan, a 83 year old father of hemiplegia, was taken care of by Liu Shuren. The three elderly people who took care of Liu Shuren were 80, 70 and 67 years old respectively. Four elderly people lived together, and solved the problem of four families with mutual assistance. A family practice of "old-age cooperative" has also made a new attempt to solve the problem of today's grim pension. Article / picture reporter Xuan Xiaoxia Wang Shanlong
4 old people "company" life, clear division of labor through 6 years
"old sister today at noon made leek egg box, very delicious! Two brothers care for me, our brother and sister four are not relatives to win relatives! " On the phone, Liu Shuren, a 83 year old man, was in a good mood, and his voice was full of joy.
Liu Shuren's apoplectic hemiplegia has been in bed for 6 years. In these 6 years, daughter Liu Wenjuan helped him build a new "family": 67 year old Feng granny is responsible for three meals a day, and grandpa Tan, 70, is responsible for his nursing, and grandpa Liu, 80, is responsible for daily procurement and chat. The four old people gathered together, and they never felt lonely. They persisted for 6 years. "
" waking up at 6:30 every morning. With the care of three brothers and sisters, Liu Shuren's daily life is very regular. When he was in bed, he and his siblings took part in the family routine. When Liu Shuren was young, he played the same way. Even though he was ill today, he could not help singing and singing Peking Opera with his older sisters. The bustling atmosphere brought the neighborhood neighbors. Nowadays, Liu Shuren's family is constantly visiting.
every time he comes home, Liu Wenjuan always shows filial piety to four old people, buying four clothes and gifts. "People are willing to wait for my father to do their best for me and share their worries for the community."
Liu Wenjuan and the reporter to calculate the pen account, "three elderly people manage to eat and hold, each person monthly salary of 800-1000 yuan, all add up, equivalent to about 4000 yuan per month, solve the 4 elderly pension problems, the key is the liberation of my brother and my time."
inspiration: mother's serious illness father hemiplegic, brother and sister encounter endowment difficult
in 1984, Liu Wenjuan graduated from Shandong University of Science and Technology, leaving school for 10 years, engaged in 6 years of international trade. Liu Wenjuan first realized that the difficulty of providing for the aged before he got rich was in 1999.
in October 3, 1999, Liu Wenjuan's mother was diagnosed with uremia. Three times a week dialysis costs ten thousand yuan, and the wage level at that time was 600 yuan per month. Even the doctors said, "even if there is a banknote printer at home, it may not be acceptable." The Liu Wenjuan family thought that the mother was a retired worker and the medical fee could be reimbursed to the original unit, but the old factory director had no choice but to say that the efficiency of the factory was not good and the workers in the post were unable to pay their wages, and they could not afford to reimburse the medical fees for the mother Liu.
"director can take away responsibility and children can not push." At that time, the whole family gathered up their families, and it was enough for my mother to pay for half a year's medical expenses. In order to raise money for her mother, Liu Wenjuan and her sister did nothing at the weekend. Liu Wenjuan took his mother to the hospital for dialysis every week at a fixed time. The owner of the van at the door looked at Liu Wenjuan's $5 oil bill. "At that time, I really realized the difficulty of getting old before getting rich." After a period of insistence, Liu Wenjuan's siblings still failed to keep their mother.
mother left, the family left his father Liu Shuren alone, 6 years ago, Liu Shuren had a stroke, the left half of the body fell to hemiplegic, usually mainly lie in bed. At that time, Liu Wenjuan's brother and sister were more economical, but they were faced with the "hollow" problem of the empty nest father.
Liu Shuren, who has been a dean for 45 years, is a typical "intellectual". He can not satisfy his spiritual needs only by looking for people to care and eat. Since then, Liu Wenjuan has begun to consider finding an environment that can take care of his father and satisfy his father's spiritual needs.
two into two out of the nursing home, and finally out of the "old age" road
"wade", and many children, Liu Wenjuan's first reaction is to send the elderly to a fixed-point catering and professional nursing homes. Liu Shuren has been in the two nursing home, but the relatively dull atmosphere and the state of being constantly looked after by others do not suit Shu Renji. Liu Wenjuan realized that to support his father, he must return to his family. "My brother and I have found two old friends for our father, and neither can we do anything. We have to find a suitable person to take care of him at home."
Liu Wenjuan's brother was the first to find old tan. He was a native of the countryside. He heard that an old man in the city needs to be taken care of. After eating and returning the money, he was happy to do the job. Worried that he was too old to be old, he was 4 years old when he was 64 years old. Feng granny is a neighbor of Liu Shuren, a family member, and a family member of the cadre. After her wife's death, she can only live on a low insurance day. Knowing that Liu Shuren needed someone to take care of her, she put down the shelf of "cadre family" and began to take care of Liu Shuren's three meals a day. At last, I invited Lao Liu who was a music teacher. He could pull the erhu to settle accounts. When he came to his home, he picked up the work of purchasing and "boring children".
beyond Liu Wenjuan's expectation, the four old people lived at home. "A few of them are together. No one feels old people. They sang together that day, and they sang" Mommy's kiss "that children loved to sing. After introducing Liu Wenjuan's model of caring for his father to his classmates and friends, the parents of several classmates also joined in the "old age support" mode. "My friend's mother had been looking for a 2600 dollar bell worker. Now she asked another empty nest aunt in the community to stay with him. She managed to manage and pay 500 yuan every month. The two sides were happy that they had lived together for a few years."
expert voice
"should promote mutual aid to each other in demand."
Liu Wenjuan realized that the distinction between home and home is a live case of "old age." Considering that China is facing the dilemma of "running into an aging society", she has the idea of promoting her own model to the whole society. "The old man can solve the difficult problem of protecting workers. If the economic conditions are limited and the old are not rich, then we try to" live in a house ", a few old people live in an old man's house, and the house is rented out.
in 2014, Liu Wenjuan quit his job and began to contact the neighborhood committee with his friends to promote public welfare. But 1 years of public service promotion, even the rented area to send the elderly into the souvenirs, she and friends lost three to four million. Now, in order to make their home pension model have hematopoiesis, she introduced two old health care services to support the community, and continued to promote their own pension model. "China's five thousand years advocate 'raising children to protect the old', 'old age' concept infiltrate into the need of time, now '50' and '60 after' are mostly only children's parents. After 10 years, they have come to the need of support, and I present the promotion now, maybe 10 years later, these '50 after' 60 'can be connected. It's the pattern and the idea. " "
" whether it is "old age pension" or "housing for the aged", in theory, there is the nature of "mutual assistance for the aged", but also a typical old-age mode. Yang Suwen, Dr. Yang Suwen of the Institute of demography of the Shandong Academy of Social Sciences, said, "the concept of the elderly is difficult to change. It is inevitable or hope to rely on the children, but there are too many '421' families at present, the only children are not energetic enough and the social support is limited. In this situation, the old people with each other's needs are going together and mutual help, will be mutual assistance, will be The new family based pension model is worth promoting and promoting.