Qishan County, Shaojun village, Shaojia bridge village of Zhang Hongli said, or his father, the son may be still in bed. Now, the son who has been diagnosed as a vegetative state can not only walk under the care of his husband, but also eat by himself. In fact, her husband Li Wenquan is just his son's stepfather.
300 guarded day and night for many days, awakening vegetative stepsons with love. Recently, Qishan's "good father" Li Wenquan was selected as the "good man list of China" in February.
add up to support the new family son, unfortunately, a vegetative person,
49 year old Li Wenquan, originally in Yangliu village, Yongchuan Town, Qishan County, once divorced. In 2009, Li Wenquan was introduced to the Zhang Hongli family of Xiao Jia Qiao village in the county town.
"when I came, my eldest son was 17 years old, and my daughter was 14 years old. She was still at school." Li Wenquan said, after his wife's ex husband died of illness, left a daughter and a daughter, and a 80 year old mother, after he arrived, he became the backbone of the family, carrying the burden of the family.
"before he came, there was no wall in my house." Zhang Hongli said that after their husbands came, they built up a new house for their families by the money they earned and the money they borrowed. In 2012, after his son Ma Xiao graduated from technical secondary school, he became a joint police officer of the Qishan County Traffic Police Brigade.
"daughter also went to the technical school. Once you graduate, you will have a good family life." Zhang Hongli said that when she and her husband were expecting better days, they had an accident.
2013 August 18th, son Ma Xiaoqi motorcycle was knocked down by a car after crossing an intersection. When Li Wenquan, who is working in Xi'an, received a telephone call back in a hurry, the doctor told him that his stepson had a serious bleeding in the brain and needed two craniotomy operations. The success of the operation was small, even if the life could be a "vegetative".
"is to lose a fortune, but also to save!" Li Wenquan told the doctor. After more than five hours of rescue, Ma Xiao was introduced into the operation room, but his right skull was removed and became a vegetative person.
11 day, Chinese business newspaper reporters see Ma Xiao's medical record at that time: after brain trauma, left limb paralysis, traumatic mental disorder, and traumatic urinary incontinence.
"steal teacher" learn rehabilitation training action for more than 10 months to wake up son
"son, wake up, open your eyes and see Mommy!" After the operation, no matter how the mother Zhang Hongli called, Ma Xiao kept his eyes closed and lay still in bed.
and a gripping stepfather, Li Wenquan, said he lost his father at the age of more than 10, looking at his stepson, who was just 20 years old on the bed, and suddenly had a feeling of pity. "No matter what, I can't give up. I must wake my son up." Li Wenquan said.
although the traffic police departments have judged the other side to blame, the perpetrators have no capacity to compensate for their poverty. In order to save his stepson, Li Wenquan had to go home to find his brother and brother-in-law to borrow money; and in order to save money, it was considered a long job to wake up his son. In the hospital, he looked at the actions of the doctor for nursing and rehabilitation training, secretly recording and practicing on his son.
"my son is 1.78 meters tall, weighs more than 80 kilograms, I can not help him turn over, can only let the baby his father come." Zhang Hongli said that, considering the cost of his son's recovery and the expense of his daughter's school, she took her son back home after half a year in the hospital and the burden of taking care of her son fell on her husband.
in order to take better care of his son, Li Wenquan slept with his son and waited by his side. He kept telling stories and music for his son; his son was stiff, he helped him every two hours, smoothed his son's arms and pinched his legs; he also made a frequent gesture of traffic before his son's accident, trying to wake up his son's memory.
Kung Fu does not bear the heart. After more than 10 months of Ma Xiao's accident, he woke up and sat up with the help of others.
more than the father of his father expected his son to live in
Li Wenquan said, after his son's accident, the family had spent nearly 200 thousand yuan, most of which were borrowed from relatives and friends. Now, apart from their son's recovery every day and their daughter's going to school, they still need to continue to live. In desperation, he had to go out to earn money by his wife, and he took care of his son at home. "Get up at 6 o'clock every morning, massage him for an hour, then give him a urine, wash it and then let him have breakfast." Li Wenquan said, when the weather is good, he will help his son walk in the yard, and do one hour's massage training before going to bed in the evening, and his son is now well. On
11 day, in an interview with the Chinese business newspaper reporter, Ma Xiaoyi, sitting next to his stepfather, spoke and talked. With his father's support, he could walk a few steps. For the future, Li Wenquan said, "my biggest wish is to hope that my son can take care of himself."
Li Wenquan's story of caring for his stepson spread across the country. Many villagers said that although Li Wenquan was not his own father, he was more conscientious than his own father. On
11 day, Feng Jinsheng, deputy secretary of the county town Party committee, said that after knowing Li Wenquan's deeds, they had made low insurance for his family and applied for difficult assistance. Recently, "good father" Li Wenquan was also selected as the first Chinese "good man list" in February, becoming the first Baoji person to get on the list of "good people in China" this year. The "China good list" is a commendation Campaign sponsored by the central civilization office, which was commended in May 2008.