Zhi Chuanlian (left) and Ma Yongsheng
a congee meal, nourishing her aunt's deep love, sewing life hard.
people often say "long sister-in-law as mother", in the city of stone castle village in the city of such a sister-in-law, her name is Zhi Chuanlian, for 28 years, always like mother to take care of a small uncle with schizophrenia, especially after the death of her grandmother, she still care for him, love him, no regrets. In the 28 year, she experienced the bitter cold and intense heat, but gave him the warm spring.
her husband was a part-time job, and the two little girls married to the outside world. Her grandmother died one after another. The huge family was left, and only one Ma Yongsheng, a small uncle with schizophrenia, was left.
"he's my brother. I'll take care of his life." For this promise, sister-in-law's 28 years will never leave.
"remember, tell your sister-in-law when you go to the bathroom." In the face of the loss of control of the size of the brother-in-law, this sentence Zhi Lian every day to say ten times.
"no matter how hard it is, I will support this family." The days are over, and the brother-in-law has to manage. As long as I can move for a day, I will wait for him for a day, so that he will be less guilty. Although the bitter taste is only known to them, when asked about so many years of experience, this simple rural woman has only one sentence.
day after day, Zhi Hyun lotus takes care of the young brother-in-law with the mother's care and love, and deducts the modern version of "sister-in-law".
happy
talk about the branch of the lotus, the whole village nobody knows.
she is 56 years old. She married 30 years ago to the old town of sixteen Mile River, Shek Qing Ya Village, and became the daughter-in-law of the old Ma family.
at that time, the family had a large population, and there were many parents in the family. Her husband, Ma Yongchang, was unable to engage in heavy physical work because he was physically weak. He could only do odd jobs. When she married, she became the pillar of the family. The family affairs were handled by her, and she served her father in law.
Zhi Chuanlian's little uncle Ma Yongsheng and the weak brother, unlike his weak brother, he was physically strong and strong, and able to hardship. First, he worked with people in the outside world, then he picked up garbage and subsidised the household. Although the family is poor, they do everything they can and work together, but their days are happy.
sudden disaster
in the twinkling of an eye, the sister-in-law married one after another, to Ma Yongsheng should find the object. However, the good thing turned out to be a bad thing and brought a huge disaster to the old horse family.
in 1986, Ma Yongsheng was 20 years old, and was introduced to a girl who was looking at the point of marriage and marriage, but the girl went away from him. Originally strong and strong, he can not bear the attack of love, suddenly suffered from schizophrenia, all day trance, even a light birth of the idea, several times to his own house to the point, the most serious one almost burned the house.
a happy and happy family has been overshadowed by laughter and laughter. Take care of
people often say that there is no filial son before a long bed, and more to take care of his unrelated unrelated uncle. However, he takes care of the uncle Ma Yongsheng every day.
as the age grew, the grandmother was unable to take care of Ma Yongsheng. All the things of the family and the burden of taking care of the uncle were all on Zhi Chuanlian's shoulders. Ma Yongsheng's daily life was arranged by her, bathing, washing clothes, barber, shaving, etc. she cleaned him up every day.
sometimes, Ma Yongsheng's size and size can't be controlled, and the clothes and bedding may be dirty without reminding. She always whispers to his uncle, "remember, go to the toilet." Then, give him a clean change.
when the sun comes out in winter, Ma Yongsheng is led to the courtyard to bask in the sun. When he was bored at home, he led him to the village to walk around and always accompany him. It is common for Ma Yongsheng to lose control of his mind. He often makes his clothes and bedclothes untidy and dirty, and even the size of his body is on top. Zhi Chuanlian never disliked, and insisted on cleaning the house, washing clothes and washing clothes.
she prepared a lot of clothes and bedclothes for the uncle. In autumn it was ready for winter clothes. In the spring, it was ready for summer clothes. However, the little uncle has two points most relieving her, one is not knowing enough to eat, as long as he sees in the bowl, and in the pot, he eats it desperately, even if he eats to vomit. Sometimes, when he saw the food in the yard, he would eat it, whether raw or cooked.
slowly, the lotus flower and ponder understand, because the young uncle used to live and be very frugal, working hours outside to eat steamed bread, never willing to eat food, a penny can not be pinched into two half flowers. Now that I am sick, I am afraid that the rest of the food is wasted, so I eat hard. For this reason, every time a meal was served, he always prepared meals for his uncle, and the dishes in the pot were secretly collected so that he could not see them.
second unrest is that the little uncle often picked up things from the garbage dump, leftover leftovers, carton cigarettes, stone bricks, and so on. Then, he told his sister-in-law to help him to collect it. For the safety of the little uncle, every time Ma Yongsheng went out, he always had to follow him. When she met a garbage dump, she rushed up to take Ma Yongsheng around. Virtue inherit
with the growth of age, the body of the male and her mother-in-law is getting worse and worse. First, the father had a brain thrombus in 1998. In 2000, the state of the disease became more and more serious. The family and the hospital went back and forth between the family and the hospital, and took care of the inpatient in bed at night and took care of the little uncle in the daytime.
at that time, he could not divide himself into two halves, half took care of his father-in-law, and half took care of his uncle. In the same year, the father-in-law left the world. In 2004, her mother-in-law got liver cancer. Although she was carefully treated and treated, she died in 2006. Zhi Chuanlian promised her father and mother, who was dying, to take care of his son forever and let him live happily.
day, day, day, day, day, day, and now, the two daughters of the lotus flower have married and married, the big daughter lives with her, and there are two clever and sensible daughters, two daughters, living in the village.
two daughters have been exposed to the care of the small uncle from childhood. Now, they are all snatching their mother's work, taking turns taking care of his uncle, coaxing his uncle to haircut, shaving, washing clothes and cleaning him.
even though little uncle does something extraordinary, they can tolerate everything. Once, Ma Yongsheng is eating, the older daughter's child is only two or three years old, in play to take a horse Yongsheng steamed bread, the result was a horse Yongsheng pinched the neck, almost out of danger. Zhi Chuanlian's eldest daughter was in tears, but after all, uncle Xiao was a patient, wiped away tears, and looked after his little uncle as always.
is such a common rural woman, that is such an ordinary sister-in-law, with her selfless love, strong will, singing a song to tears of "sister in law"...
this way takes care of it for 28 years. In the village, no one thumbs up his fingers. "Such a good sister-in-law is rare in the world. It is a blessing for the old horse family to meet." The villagers in the village of stone blue cliff said.