Ji'nan 70 years old nine years like a day to look at a paralyzed wife
Yang Lide and Han Yi born in the same year in Ji'nan, is the lover of the bamboo horse, the two people lived on the same street from childhood. At the age of 21, two people went into the marriage hall hand in hand. At the moment, 3 children were all grown up to enjoy the age of Fu Qing Fu, but his wife, Han Yi, was suddenly paralyzed in bed. She lost her memory only to his own friend Yang Lide. In 9 years, his daily life was to take care of his wife like a baby. Wen / reporter Liu Jianyu intern Zhang double picture / reporter Liu Jianyu
[blue Mei] from a street
Yang Lide and Han Yi are born in Ji'nan in 1940. Because both of them are in Foshan street, Yang Lide and Han Yi knew each other from an early age. "She often saw her when she was a child. She was very honest, able to work and talk little." Yang Lide said that Han Yi often visited Yang's family when he was young, and helped Yang Lide's mother to paste the paper box.
in 1959, Han Yi, who helped after the graduation at the street service station, often sent letters to Yang's family. He often met Yang Lide. In 1961, two people who met each other in two years finally got married. "Our family was in poor condition, but we had no money to get married, but we put two tables at home and invited relatives. She did not choose to marry me happily. Yang Lide said.
at that time, Yang Lide worked in a diesel engine factory, earning 36.5 yuan a month. Han Yi, a family member of the street, worked hard in the factory for washing machines and other dirty work, earning only 20 yuan a month. In order to bring up 3 children, Han Yi came to work from outside after work, and put on pillow covers and pads.
[sudden change] wife falls and paralyzed, only recognizes her husband
in 2005, Yang Lide and Han Yi are 65 years old, and their children have already made their own homes. In the evening, Yang Lide, who had finished disco, went home. His wife, Han Yi, had already boiled hot water in the bath. "I was sitting in the room waiting, and suddenly she heard her 'ouch' called, and then 'Bang', I ran into the bathroom and saw her on the ground." Yang Lide said, she hurried her companion to the bed, but found that she could not wake up. "For more than 70 years, I have never been so frightened as I was. I was afraid she would be gone." When
was sent to hospital, the doctor diagnosed Han Yi's brain damage and immediately underwent craniotomy. "My mom has been in the ICU for more than 20 days, and my dad has been sitting outside the intensive care unit day and night. I can't see my mother without a window, but my father is sitting there, and it's useless to persuade anyone. " Yang Min, the eldest daughter, said that his father secretly cried several times behind them.
Han Yi, who came out of the ICU, though he has saved his life, his body is completely paralyzed, and his former memory has vanished. "We don't know all of these children. They only recognize my father." Yang Min said.
2 months after hospitalization, Yang Lide took Han Yi home. I heard that the massage can cure paralysis, Yang Lide goes around to seek medical treatment, the doctor can charge a single charge of 50 yuan, but every time the massage is 10 minutes, Yang Lide stole school, and then give his wife nearly 2 hours a day. In order to help his wife to exercise, Yang Lide would sit up with his wife every day. Even if the paralyzed Han Yi would slip down again, Yang Lide would never be discouraged. One day after half a year, Yang Lide kept his wife as usual. "That's the most touching moment since she fell ill." Yang Lide said happily.
[nine years as one day] get up overnight for four or five times to change diaper
in 2006, Yang Lide went to Beiyuan Street police station for his wife to change his identity card, and the taxi that ran out from the back brought the old man to the ground. Taxi full responsibility, Yang Lide femoral head comminuted fracture. "My legs are so painful that I can't stand up. I was thinking about it. If I could not do it, what could I do with my partner's illness?"
15 days after finishing the steel plate in hospital, Yang Lide did not wait for a stitch removal. Yang Min, the eldest daughter, said that his father was also in bed after coming home, but every day he would just walk out of bed with a crutch and look at his wife in the next room. "I just want to be closer to my wife, and I can only feel at ease when I see her." Yang Lide said. After the recovery of
, Yang Lide still takes care of his wife everyday. He gets up at 7 every day, takes care of his wife for breakfast at 8, and massages his wife at 9, then pushes her to the TV set. At 10, Yang Lide starts to cook lunch again. At 11:30, he gave his wife a good lunch. Yang Lide helped his wife to go to bed for a nap. Then he ate for himself, and his wife slept for 2 hours. He only slept 1 hours. At 2 p.m., when his companion woke up on time, Yang Lide did a massage for his wife and fed his partner at 3 p.m. to eat the fruit. Then he was still watching TV, taking the opportunity to pack up and prepare dinner. At 7 o'clock, she took her wife to bed. When she watched TV at 9 o'clock and naturally fell asleep, Yang Lide went out of bed and turned off the TV to sleep. I had to get up again four or five times a night to change my nappies for my wife. This kind of life has lasted for 9 years.
under the care of Yang Lide, Han Yi never had bedsore. Because there are two people at home every day, Yang Lide often chatted with Han, "talk to her, tell her, 'how good are you both in the TV play', and sometimes joking with her that she says, 'you are so young when you're young, and you can't even walk now'." Although Han Yi would never respond to him, he would be satisfied with the giggling of his wife's face occasionally.