his name is Yin Xiaozhong, 55 years old this year, her name is Zhou Zhilan, 59 years old this year.
in 1978, he was introduced by 19 year old and 23 years old. At that time, he was a native of the Fudong town of Helong County, working in the vegetable team. At that time, it was an enviable job, not only to be full, but also to eat well. But she was from Shandong to her sister.
"I was a child at that time, and I didn't understand anything. I heard the old man say," I find a wife who knows more than herself is aware of hurting you. " He said that the two met several times and got married at the end of that year.
there are seven brothers and sisters in his family. He is the eldest brother and takes care of his parents and brothers and sisters at home. He never knew what love was. He had been married to her before he realized how warm it was to be home.
, "no matter how late I finished my work, the food must be done on the table, and there must be a hot pot next to her, and she is sitting there waiting for me to go home and eat." He said, "until now, I believe that the first 35 years of marriage have enjoyed the happiness that most men do not enjoy."
"I sometimes do not understand why, especially the present two, who do more dry and less, my daughter-in-law housework all over, never let me stretch a hand, never said tired." He recalled, still very proud. He was a tractor hand. At that time, there were only 11 tractors in the whole of Helong county. "It was the same as the county magistrate drive". This sense of pride was mostly realized from his wife.
"there is an egg in her house. She can't bear to eat it. It will be left for me to eat."
"she not only took me as her husband, but also took care of me as a little brother."
in 1979, the eldest son was born, from confinement to child care. She never let him reach out. He was ignorant and ignorant. "He didn't even wash a urine. He didn't know how the child grew up."
the pasta she made was a "secret weapon"
"she only knew how much money this year was better than last year. She never asked, never, she said she had to give me the money, and she didn't want money."
as the family's sister-in-law, washing clothes, cooking, she almost complete the family size of the whole, and usually take care of his 6 brothers and sisters, even more meticulous.
she also made a good noodle. Big and fragrant steamed bread, various shapes of bean packets, unique noodles... To this day, he is still enjoying himself.
in 1981, the local coal mine allowed the individual to contract, and he first contracted the coal mine, when the customer's "secret weapon", not anything else, was the wife's steamed bread and noodles. She used the unique recipe of Shandong's hometown to make the steamed bread soft and fragrant, and the people who ate it could not forget it. Every year during the new year, 6 bags of noodles are prepared for the family to make steamed bread. "
" is a good relationship. I asked you early to say, can we eat steamed steamed bread for the Spring Festival this year, and the steamed bread made by siblings is too delicious! " She started making steamed bread a few years ago. She always stopped all kinds of cars at the door.
the noodles she made were more special. "Boil the noodles, blanch them with water, and pick them with chopsticks. The middle is black, the sweet potato powder, and the white side is white. Directly pour the three fresh brine she made, one eat, that stretch, that delicious! " He told reporters that his wife's noodle skills are also known far and wide.
Contract mine has many parties. He often eats with others and goes home at seven or eight in the evening. And every time he goes home, his wife is still the same as before. There are fried dishes and hot wine on the table, waiting for him to come back for dinner.
until later, every time he went home, he had finished eating, repeatedly told her to eat first, and she persisted for more than a year before she gave up.
there are good wives, and the business of coal mines is booming.
"how much money do you have? By 1990, I've had hundreds of thousands of people." At that time, he said, he had become a well known coal boss and rich man. The wife also took care of herself as a younger brother, and never even asked how much money she had.
"she only knew how much money this year was better than last year. She never asked, never, she said she had to give me the money, and she didn't want money." He said that he had more money and more women, but she was always in his heart.
serious illness
happy life was changed
"coma more than 20 days later, she sober up, created the first miracle. But the left side was paralyzed, and his language was impaired, and he didn't speak clearly.
the terrible news. In June 1994, he was busy in the coal mine. Someone came to see him. He said his sister's wife was sick and spit and pulled. He hurried home and found that the yard was all in the yard. She was lying on the ground and twitching. At that time, she opened a shop in the town and had nothing to do with playing poker with her friends. He hurried to an ambulance and went to the town hospital. The president looked at his face and said that it was not a minor ailment. It was a stroke and had to go to a large hospital. He took her directly to the Affiliated Hospital of Yanbian University. The hospital was diagnosed with cerebral congestion, and the operation was performed immediately. After
he pleaded with the doctor to operate again to save her. "I say, in this case, can there be a miracle?" He cried when he asked the doctor to save her.
under his entreaty, the doctor met to study the operative plan and performed second craniotomy operations to deal with two other malformed vessels.
"more than 20 days after the coma, she sober up and created the first miracle. But the left side was paralyzed, and his language was impaired, and he didn't speak clearly. He said that doctors told him that waking up is a miracle, which can survive for 8 years at most.
he did not believe that she took her on the road to medical treatment. Beijing, Shanghai, Tianjin... All the large hospitals that have heard of this disease have been there, even with a ray of hope.
she can't eat hard rice, it's porridge or mixed rice soup. He does three meals a day.
she can not move, incontinence, sometimes inconvenient one day, sometimes a few days a day, he quietly clean up.
he was bent on her, and the contracted coal mine had to be handed over to others for management.
ten thousand, twenty thousand, one hundred thousand, two hundred thousand... All his savings were spent on her, and he did not wrinkle his brows. He only wanted to return to the woman who could make a steamed noodle, a hot wine, and so on. After
his wife fell down, the duties of the housework and the care of the children fell to him, after washing and busy, he knew that in these years, the wife had taken so much, but never had a complaint.
at night, lying on the bed, he asked her if she was cold, hungry, and hungry, and she always cuddle him with the moving right half, just like when she was just married. He could not help turning her face away from her eyes.
that year, the two words are good, the handsome men, rich, beautiful women, always smiling on the face, for the people of the neighborhood did not say bad, she made the sandwich, we always eat, especially delicious. We all said that God did not open his eyes, so good couple, how can we get this disease.
he was a famous millionaire then. When his wife was ill, he took his wife around to see a doctor. When he heard of where he could get treatment, he never went away. That's all the money is.
when his eldest son was married, he didn't have a penny. On the wedding stage, his son gave him a salute. He couldn't get anything out of him. He cried the sad heart of his son, and our friends cried at the stage.
- Li Fenglan, an old friend who opened coal mine in Helong County in the same year, was very sad to talk about the two people.
he never asks the community. Every day we see him on the back of his daughter-in-law outside to bask in the sun. Last year, the community issued a wheelchair. He came to ask if he could lead one. We knew that his daughter-in-law was so sick.
- Wei Sumei, director of the Party Construction Office of Yanji construction industry, spoke of Yin Xiao Zhong's admiration.
father is my example. My dad and mom are feeling good since I was little, and my dad has everything to support my mom. So I think my dad is so good at waiting for my mother. But sure, my dad used to be very beautiful. Now the gap is so big that he can get over it. It's not easy.
- son Yin Chang Li said so.