Meticulous care for a vegetative wife, a 19 year old old man's romance
Huang Jiajie correspondent of the Ji'nan Daily reporter Xu Mingzhen Sun Xiaowei
old people late school carefully care for the old friends of the plants.
the most romantic thing I can think of is that the most romantic thing is.Amp with you; hellip.amp; hellip, the most popular song, has been sought after by a lover. The 81 year old man has done the most romantic thing in his life. His wife, Qu Junmin, was paralyzed in bed 19 years ago because of cerebral thrombosis and diabetes. He became vegetative 7 years ago. For 19 years, the late school has insisted on taking care of his wife and being a masseuse, dietitian, hairdresser.Amp; hellip.amp; and Dr. hellip said that his wife, who had not been able to do so, was still ruddy, though he did not wake up.
boiled dumplings were broken with a soya bean milk machine to feed
Qu Junmin on the bed. She knew it was not to say. In the late school, for example, one time he broke off his partner's mouth and fed him, and his companion suddenly snapped his finger, and he whispered, "the bite would not feed you, and she immediately loosened her mouth." The interaction with his wife became a flash of light in the old man's heart and a force that supported him all the way down.
in the early years, Qu Jun min ate mainly by stomach tube. With the help of late learning, his wife gradually had the ability to swallow autonomously. So, he changed his way to match the nutritious meal, dumplings, noodles, egg flower porridge, all kinds of vegetables and fruits.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip2 days a pot of big bone soup, calcium 3 days to the old companion Apple porridge, to the old companion vitamin summer often buy a watermelon, make a cool watermelon juice to relieve the summer. Now she can eat more than half of steamed bread and half a bowl of dishes at most. My wife likes to eat dumplings and hand rolling noodles, so I sometimes make dumplings for her. However, these foods are not suitable for their partners to eat directly, but they need to be broken by the soya bean milk machine before feeding.
every night to help his wife turn over two or three times
in the afternoon of September 3rd, the reporter met Chi Xuedian. In the residential building of No. 128 Hospital of Lishan Road, the simple household appliances, clean rooms have no smell, the old clocks of the living room answer and answer, in more than 19 years of the shuttle, do not slow to do the repetitive mechanical movement, just like the male owner of the room.
6 in the morning, he gets up on time, on the back of his green army bag to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, to go to the drugstore for two times a week to buy medicine.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip go home for breakfast, do not eat, Chi Xuedian first pillow cushion high, with a spoon open the mouth to feed the mouth. Others are three meals a day, Qu Junmin is the four meal, at 9 o'clock in the evening to feed. Arm your partner for two times a day, 50 times at a time. Once every 2 hours, you can help your partner turn around, and slap and massage for 20 times. This is a compulsory course every day. Otherwise, she will easily suffer from bedsore. Even every night, he got up 2.amp; mdash3 helped his wife turn over.
understanding and integrity are my lifelong guidelines.
this is my duty. Speaking of the feeling of caring for his wife for 19 years, the late school had an indifferent answer. We got married in 1949, survived the 3 year natural disaster, pulled up 5 sons and burned the boiler for 14 years in the unit, and worked hard all his life. She is a strong man. It is natural to take care of my wife, especially when she is sick, and understanding and honesty are the rules of my life.
no matter what happens, late learning will recollect the old memories of her wife, and it will be difficult to relate to her now. We can't do it all. A few children work in the bus and public security system. The more busy they are during the holidays, the more serious the burden of taking care of their mothers lies on their fathers. However, due to the influence of late learning, the marriages of the younger generation are very well maintained, and they form a harmonious family together.