today, women are beginning to defend their rights and dignity in their marriage. On the 18 day, the reporter learned from the court of Huaiyin District of Ji'nan that in the divorce case accepted by Huaiyin District in 2012, women also actively accounted for nearly 70%. Experts said that Kochi Women were economically independent and began to focus on the quality of marriage, and the desire to live for themselves became stronger and stronger. The divorce rate in Ji'nan grew by 18 days in a year, and the women's newspaper reporter learned from the Ji'nan Civil Affairs Bureau that in 2010, there were 55735 pairs of marriage registration in Ji'nan and 11737 pairs of divorce registration. In 2011, there were 65338 pairs of marriage registration and 12368 pairs of divorce registration. In 2012, there were 62203 pairs of marriage registration and 15224 pairs of divorce registration. The number of divorces in Ji'nan has been increasing for three years. From 2011 to 2012, the marriage rate in Ji'nan declined, but the divorce rate increased rapidly. Ms. Tung is 36 years old and has a university degree. When she was young, she was introduced to marry her ex husband and had a son after marriage. The ex husband did the furniture business and the business was very red. MS Tung opened a SPA store with a monthly income of over 10000 yuan. At the beginning of the marriage, she was very happy. However, two years ago, Mrs. Tung accidentally discovered that her ex husband had an affair. Ms. Dong told her husband to court in a complaint. It was not until the divorce verdict came that his ex husband realized that he had been divorced by his wife. Yesterday, the reporter learned from the court of Huaiyin District of Ji'nan that nearly 70% of the women's divorce cases in the Huaiyin District Court in 2012 were proactive. The case shows that the higher the educational level of women, the higher the proportion of divorce. Among them, extramarital affairs and the third become the primary causes of divorce. In civil divorce cases, women have become the initiator of divorce. A staff member of the civil Hall of the Ji'nan Huaiyin District Court told a reporter that in the past two years the case showed that the women in Ji'nan were much higher than the older generation of marriage quality. When the quality of marriage was not guaranteed, it began to put forward a divorce and actively seek for the next happiness. After 80, marriage is too casual. Among these divorce cases, flash marriage is the second place. The breakdown of marriage is due to the lack of sense of responsibility of the younger generation. Now many young people do not want to live together when they encounter problems. At the beginning of marriage, I didn't know much. I would idealize marriage and not adapt to the real life. Yu Shaoquan, director of Ji'nan century sunshine psychological counseling center, said. A few days ago, a case was discovered in a small spring: in 2010, Xiao Li, a girl, was introduced to establish a love relationship with the small Zhang Chang matchmaker who was 85. A month later, Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang registered their marriage with the urge of their parents. Only four months after marriage, Xiao Li applied to the court for divorce. It turned out that her husband had been separated after marriage because of his working relationship. In the first two months, Xiao Zhang often cooed with Xiao Li on the phone, but in the later period, Xiao Zhang began to reduce the contact with his wife Xiao Li. Xiao Li began to be suspicious of Xiao Zhang. Xiao Li thinks that her marriage is not the happiness she had imagined, but Xiaoli asked Xiao Zhang to ask for divorce. After that, Xiao Li also had some regrets. Nowadays many young people only know what they don't want and don't know what they want. In the process of growing up in the 1980s, the parents were busy making money and neglects communication with their children. No one taught them how to love. Many young and young couples are not divorced from maturity. The idea of divorce has been supported by emotion, and after the emotional recovery, it begins to reflect on the problems in the marriage. Divorce is a trial case for better life, showing that the divorce rate among middle-aged women is the highest among all ages. This is a reflection of the middle age is a husband and wife, on the other hand, also reflects the middle-aged women began to cherish the quality of their own marriage, a strong desire to live for themselves. Said at the young spring. The number of divorces is increasing, which reflects that with the development of the society, more choice opportunities and space for personal life, and the independence of both husband and wife's career and work are the economic prerequisites for divorce. Divorce is the way to solve problems when the values of two couples are divided. Shanghai soul garden chief consultant Ji Long Mei said, sometimes, some divorce may be a good thing for two people. It is a good thing for the two people to be free in the bondage of marriage. After a good gathering, it is a kind of life to find the suitable half of the other, and the divorce can not be simply the criterion of moral loss. Ji Longmei said that, with the development of the economy, most urban women are economically independent professional women. They have their own social status and economic basis. They think about the value of life and the meaning of happiness. They regard unhappiness and unhappiness as the greatest unfortunate life of life. Chinese men are no longer the lead of marriage. Women and the coming HUF times are beginning to come to the age of the rest of the husband. For Chinese men, the alarm of respect for marriage and respect for women is rounded for Chinese men.